I'm thinking about doing this for my own mental health, whether they be open source projects, fun projects, or projects that might be eventually monetizable and turn into a business (but without the pressure to necessarily do so). After burnout in the corporate world it would be nice to just do what I feel like doing for a while.
Financially, I'm good to do this for a certain amount of time, but at some point I'll need to work again -- my savings is fine for some years, but nowhere close to retirement.
Have any of you taken this kind of gap? Did you ever feel that your lack of a line on your resume caused the constant influx of recruiter emails to slowly start dwindling, and your "I can always get a job" lifeline started vanishing at some point?
Or did you feel it was a non-issue, and that recruiters continued to see your technical abilities without the job title?
I only really regret treating the time off as more of an issue than it was. I was convinced by month 10 that I had failed to meet some imaginary, impossible deadline I had set for myself against the imaginary, impossible expectations of imaginary and impossible people. That cognitive distortion only got in the way of the inevitable and only possible resolution, which was a better sense of my own motivations and a broader horizon to sail toward hope again.
I would agree with the advice of everyone here, and add: If you’re stressed about the opportunity cost of lost earnings, weigh it against your sense of value for the time you’ll take off, whether it’s in the skills you’ll be building, or the new experiences, or the renewed mental health. And above all, talk to your friends early and often. Even if the roof is on fire, especially when the roof is on fire.
Job-wise, I haven’t really stressed that much because I figured it wouldn’t too hard to get a software job as an experienced dev (and I was right)
During the break, I did try to build some for-profit projects so that I could prolong the break as much as I wanted. But in hindsight, it was a mistake if I were to do it again I would just focus on what makes me happy instead of trying to make something that can make money.
All in all, I’d recommend it. I’m in a better place mentally and I hope I can do it again in 5-7 years.
It's good to consider the financial impact seriously in balance with everything else - not only the income you won't earn, but also how that would have compounded across your lifetime.
To address your point about recruiter emails, I still get them. So long as you can provide value to a business at the end of your break it's not necessarily an issue, though you might have to work harder to demonstrate that - I think especially for the soft skills you'd otherwise be using day-to-day in a workplace as opposed to when you're just doing your own thing.
The first of those, my second of five deployments, I taught myself to program. Yes, I was a professional programmer before I could program anything. This is actually the norm in JavaScript and unfortunately many JavaScript developers never really learn to program.
My programming speed and capabilities has dramatically improved with each of these career breaks. The strange thing about programming is there is absolutely no correlation between competence and career elevation, and these breaks have been detrimental to my career elevation.
The odds of creating teams among 70 founders, freezing on an idea, pitching and getting an investment from their IC is only 5%. This contrasts with YC where everyone gets an investment on day 1. But Antler isn't meant for those who have that clarity. Yet. You just want to startup. They interview you, giving you 2-3 months to figure it out.
They also have a small stipend during this time.
Although I personally pitched with a team and didn't get an investment and decided to join the workforce again - there are many who continued with their team and bootstrapped post that or raised many quarters later.
Regardless of how many founders eventually raise at the end of the cohort (15 teams formed from 70 founders, 3-5 teams on avg clear IC for $250k investment), Antler raises capital from their LP's 100% of the time, backed up by the logos of the employment of the founders, and potential opportunity. I felt conflicted by this initially. But it's a net win for the ecosystem. They get to fund more winners longer,and aren't obliged to fund every team for various reasons and have a high bar at the IC that is a reality check for many first time founders.
Much like cohorts, the bond from staying in close proximity with that many folks also leads to a lifelong network that is still super tight 3 years post.
That worked, and I got my mojo back.
I also became a bit of an expert in the niche I was learning. That helped get me work that was unusually challenging and rewarding.
(I've since moved on to other areas, especially startup do-all-the-things roles.)
Just an anecdote, maybe an edge case. I don't think it's a reliably repeatable formula. There was a lot of good and bad luck involved. And, under the particular circumstances, I had to be willing to give up almost everything else, and ended up giving up things I didn't even know I was giving up.
Note: I am not affiliated with the Recurse Center, just a big fan.
Now I’m back to the job hunt grind, which is the complete opposite of fun, but my time at RC was very worth it.
I realize this is incredibly fortunate, and I'm going to take the opportunity to do something a bit different. I'm going to try to pursue a new direction in my career, with the goal of starting my own mini-company. But, I'm also trying to be very realistic, and setting some contingency goals. Since I'll be focusing on learning some new skills, Plan B is to build a portfolio as I learn, and if I can't meet the goal of starting my own company, I'd like to start contracting with my new skills. Or.. Plan C is to get a job using my new skills, and at least I'm able to pivot my career in a new direction.
I'm not too worried about the lack of a line in my resume, I'll plan to document what I'm doing this year in public, on a blog, and on Github, and find some way to describe it on my resume.
It's coming up on a year for me out of a programming job. I'm looking forward to starting this fast food job so I can afford groceries again.
Either way, still writing code.
It wasn't planned and I didn't have the finances setup but I made it work and spent my time doing volunteer work, some personal spiritual exploration and low cost travel.
Granted, single, no one needing me for anything, so your mileage may vary.
For me, best decision ever. I really enjoyed getting to point of not knowing what day it was.
I've traveled the world, lived in NYC extensively, and spent enough hours in the gym where that $10,000/month membership at Continuum sounded reasonable. I am trying my best to down a protein bar as I write this post even though it tastes like minty dirt. I don't pay $10k - my current gym membership is only $420/month. Although, I did have 3 gym memberships at one point and did utilize each fully.
Was/Is it worth it? I don't know. I'm still single but I know that I would 100% still be single if I stayed working back in SV. It's hard to even find a job outside of SV due to my heavily startup focused resume. (Very much a 0 to 1 resume) I've mostly accepted that I will just have to focus on career when I get back to SV. I have plenty of money still but I've learned my body has a limit of two hours of hard exercise everyday. Due to that, I am considering going back to work but I spent a month in SV this year and it was absolutely miserable on the dating front. It was completely pointless. So, if I move back, I will have to be traveling very long distances a lot to meet any women.
As far as resume/career/etc impact. I have a very focused startup background. It has had little impact. In SV, it's extremely typical for people to take sabbaticals and I think due to the down market in tech - it's very common right now. I don't tell people I was wife searching though cause that sounds absolutely crazy. If I wanted a job, I'd have it. I'm in team match with some big companies right now but due to my focus on only wanting to join NYC - they can't find me a spot. If I was open to SV, I'd be matched very quickly.
On the other hand... Now older I see the financial/compounding aspect more clearly.
Specifically, you mention you have "savings for some years". If you stick at that, continuing to save and benefiting from compounding, you could reach financial independence, a magical point after which any work you do will be entirely optional, at your own discretion, and decoupled from what earnings it brings. For the rest of your entire life. Hard to overstate the freedom that entails.
So is it worth jumping off that trajectory early, squandering the savings, and pushing financial independence much farther back?
Arguably, no.
Your decision.
Had nerves interviewing at first but eventually settled into a groove. Will it be harder than interviewing when you're currently employed? Yes, but a lot of it will be in your head. One of the most rewarding experiences of my life and so happy I did it
I had spent far too long at an enterprise SaaS startup with a nice hybrid schedule and needed a major change. Right after leaving, I took a Machine Learning course and planned to build projects with React Native (my background was primarily in C++ and Python). However, a friend soon asked for financial advice, and that unexpectedly set me on a whole new life path as a financial planner. Definitely a lot of opportunity cost involved in that pivot but I have no regrets.
Last year, I did some consulting for a FinTech company, and I’d love to build again someday—especially now that LLMs make it even more exciting. For now, though, I’m fully embracing the ride, helping others take sabbaticals and explore various flavors of work-optionality.
I didn't plan this, I never tell anyone I'm looking for work, I don't update linked-in with a status. But it's been so long now, I don't think I could ever work a "real" job ever again. I've now been on my own; consulting longer than my software engineering career out of university.
When I quit that job in 2011, I only had $16k in my checking account. I figured if I had to I'd cash out the 401k from a previous job. I don't have family, put myself through university working a 3rd shift factory job, and still graduated with $40k in debt, in 1999. So to anyone thinking, must be easy when you have a safety net, couldn't be further from the truth. The manager at that last job was so incompetent she was throwing engineers under the bus left and right for her mistakes, I left before I was next.
Quitting that job in 2011 was the best decision I ever made. I know most people can't stand the stress of not having a steady paycheck. I couldn't care less, being free of being an employee was worth it to me. Salaried jobs are no more guaranteed anyway, it's a false sense of security. Since then, I bought and paid off a house in 4 years, paid for SUV. Bought tons of equipment, office furniture, books, computers etc. Over 5 years of living expenses saved now. I'm thinking of pivoting to creating a website, making youtube videos and maybe writing some books. The youtube channel will focus on science experiments; a different approach to learning. Trying to wind down a client I've been working with for 2 years now so I can move on. The last thing I'd do is cover software though, always hated it, just a means to an end, and I'm so good at it I make more in 1 day than most people make in 2 weeks. But money isn't everything, once you have "enough", and you keep your expenses low, you can be truly free...
' Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.' -- Robert Frost
That was the best decision I took. I got refreshed, learned many things about myself, and had a great time.
During that time period, I decided to build my own startup and then started thinking like a founder/problem solver than an employee. After 8-9 months, registered a company and building MVP on that, created a custom CMS and blog site.
Moneywise, I am constrained but very happy with my time and work I do. I used to dread Monday's but nowadays, I don't even put in alarm and is awake around 3:30 am and long work hours are tiring but not mentally exhausting as I don't answer to anyone and love the product I am building.
I haven't worked in a office setting for over 7 years, but I built and sold several companies. Whoever is not going to hire me in future is probably their miss. But I am honestly not sure if I would even go back into IT.
It's been the best for my mental health. I love coding, but stress environments, especially feeling stress for someone else aren't for me.
I spent that time working on a "startup" with friends, but we have quickly realized that we had no sale skills whatsoever and were just building an app for fun. It helped me to learn frontend programming, so it wasn't a wasted time. After that, when I finally decided to look for a job, I found one with a much better compensation than before, but that was a given considering I moved back from Asia to Europe.
Now with our project at work coming to an end, I'm thinking it's a great time to do it again. Everyone complains about the job market not being as hot as it was before, so it make sense to take some time off to stay with family, do some sports, gather thoughts and later prepare for interviews, learn new skills and maybe jump onto the AI train. The SE work may change a lot in the following years and it is a good idea to prepare for it well. I have a feeling I will need to learn more about math, ML, systems design and devops to stay in the game.
I'm also quite confident in my ability to find a regular job when needed even if I have a few years gap in my resume
Now that the health issues are behind me, I have the ability to move to SF and work with a team of robotic engineers on a new project they’re building. Only caveat is I’d be doing it purely for learning; I don’t have the skills necessary to provide value to the team yet.
Haven’t talked details all the way through with the founder I’m talking to, but I think it could be an incredible learning experience. We’re syncing up after Christmas, anyone have any suggestions on what to ask or input on the situation in general?
I don't know what to expect going forward. In my experience, as long as you can show that you're keeping your skills sharp, and have something to show for your year off, it can even work to your advantage. Taking one year off to spend your day playing Factorio probably wouldn't look as good to recruiters (although I can see people needing just that after a stressful run).
BTW, I'm near 50 with 20+ in FAANG/AAA Tech.
I think because of the layoffs recruiters just stopped reaching out in general. Now that Im working at a household name company with linked in updated they still don't reach out.
The recruiters I talked to though were almost all on auto pilot. Theyd ask "why are you leaving your current job" and variations and I'd be like, well I haven't worked in a year. Or just ask me about my last job and I wouldn't bring it up that I wasn't working.
Not working felt amazing, the interview process made me hate working all over again and I didn't even have a job.
I spent the first 3-4 months learning swift, iOS development, and hacking on an app project. It was probably some of the most fun I've had in a while simply because I wasn't locked into product decisions, timelines, or other requirements.
But of course it depends on finances and how easy it is for you to rejoin the industry. Fortunately I got my current job just as all the layoffs and hiring freezes began. Not sure what would've happened if not for that.
I'll be starting a job next month, because at this point I probably gotta get back on the hamster wheel and work into some professional progress, but I'm hoping this is my last non-programming job. The last 13 months have absolutely been worth the price of admission.
I also wrote a more detailed blog about my experiences and advice for a break if it's useful! https://gunsch.cc/2024/04/06/sabbatical-review.html
It paid the bills and was a great seachange for a while for me to get my head back in check and learn boundaries of work/life balance.
I'm now back in a DevOps role the last year but things are different now. Mostly my attitude and expectations.
If you need the break, take it. The market will pick you back up when you are ready.
pros: you can breath freely. you can jump and sleep and risk and judge things. no calendar (like, which month is now?). etc - outside-hamster-wheel.
cons: Savings that should last whole year, well, did not. "i can always get a job" does not work, esp. right now (and i am making software for 35 years).
Will i do it again? Yes. "if it hurts, do it more often"
have fun!
It was actually doing that work that helped me get my next full time job. And they later supported me in taking some time off so I could do a proper release of the project.
So, for me, it worked beautifully. Obviously I cannot say for sure what would happen for you, but I think if you are working on things that help you grow, it will not be wasted.
the food is shit but it's still better than 9 to 5.
on gaps on resume lol it never mattered. that "i can always get a job" lifeline is always there as long as i'm staying sharp on my technical skills.
on interviews though it's pointless to take it personally.
it's numbers game. sometimes they make you jump through hoops, sometimes you just dont pass the vibe check, sometimes they just cant afford a better offer.
for me it's less of how you can fit the requirements they are looking for, but more on what else you can bring on the table aside from fitting their criteria.
they should also be the one qualifying themselves to you as the right place for you to work at.
a lot of it is just a reframe on how you see things, and it reflects on your words and on your actions.
if you are feeling desperate and hopeless, it means you have a weak pipeline, a faucet not a firehose.
you need hundreds of brain dead applications and your phone ringing every hour or two. you have to play your cards like you're the blonde with the best tits in town.
you gotta be doing so much motion that your mind doesnt even have time to register any negative emotion.
You get a little lonely as you don’t get the social fix from hanging out with work folk.
Overall the health benefits are immense. Both mental and physical as you have more time to look after yourself.
The success comes in the form of creating a void for opportunities to present themselves. I ended up doing things I never thought I’d do. Some were fun nothing burgers, and others were financially successful. The important thing is I got all my daily chores done first and only coded if I was “bored”. Coding/hacking came last.
Mostly worked on a Virtual tabletop (think foundry but worse, except in OcaML), and on mathlab and modelling the climate crisis by and for myself (this weirdly helped with my eco anxiety, but mostly because it made me extremely selfish and not care for future humans anymore)
(I do this whenever switching jobs. After six to nine months, I'm eager to work with other people again, which makes it easy to find a job.)
In terms of “hacking on my own things”, I highly recommend it. Not needing to work allowed me to make a lot of progress in 6 months. I tried different businesses, and was able to focus way better than “hacking in the side / after my 9-5”.
In terms of physical and mental health, I also recommend it. Make sure to not work 16 hours a day and try to enjoy the free time as well. For me it meant going to the gym daily, doing more boxing sessions, and traveling a lot.
Lastly, in terms of healing burnout, I’m not sure yet. I’m learning now that burnout can be triggered by different reasons. So if you are tired from corporate, take a year off, and then come back to corporate, I doubt your previous issues with corporate will just vanish. But as always, YMMV.
Lastly lastly, didn’t have any issues with recruiters. On the contrary, it makes hell of a story.
Good luck. Feel free to reach out or check my blog, where I posted some notes form my sabbatical. Links/email/socials are in my profile.
job gaps aren't too much of a thing in this industry, like, they become obvious that you might not be familiar with libraries and frameworks anymore, not that you have any gaps in a way people in other industries are afraid of.
either way, you learn how to reposition your resume to be competitive. your references go stale though so definitely at least get a business partner or subcontractor while hacking. you can restructure the hierarchy of your project for storytelling and references when necessary.
my resume says I’m an individual contributor at a company I was technical cofounder of, for example. I have an IC roles now. Nobody cares, there’s too much stuff to build. But dont give them a reason to care, managers get worried you’ll butt heads with their management style if you have leadership experience, tailor your resume for the job you want.