This DDoS problem has been a plague on 1.6 in India for the last 5-7 years. From what I've gathered, none has been able to solve for it, and even though I don't have skin in the game (other than being a frequent player), it fundamentally feels wrong being bullied.
Does anyone have experience with solving this?
P.S. If you do give a response, please consider that I do not have an IT background. Thank you.
Try disabling UPNP/SSDP on your router, then updating the firmware on your router and rebooting it. If that is not an option then read up on how to modify the firewall rules of your OS to disable the inbound ports for your game as they are only required if you are hosting a public server.
If they are killing the connection on the server side then the only thing one could do is to not use that server. This is common on servers hosted by the players. Try to release and renew your DHCP lease on the router if it has the option. Sometimes turning it off a while and back on will do this varies by ISP with the goal being to get a new IP so they stop booting or punting your IP address and game port(s) provided you do not reconnect to the servers operated by the cute and fuzzy bunnies.