Ideally I could use a cheap base station or mobile station, hook up a pi, add tail scale, and run some software on my laptop to control the radio.
Even in 2024 this seems surprisingly difficult for under $1500, even though decent SDR UHF/VHF HT are $50 and raspberry pis are $100.
For real HAM, what's the expensive part? I'm seeing lots of $250 and under transceivers with a PC interface. $18 link cable, $40 Pi clone, free software, your choice of antenna.