I took 6 months off and then started working on my own project that turned into a startup. We have a few customers and we are growing, albeit slowly. I did not have any experience with Sales and Marketing and did not have any in-group contacts for selling MVP. I am learning it hard way.
Just looking at number of layoffs it is scary. How is job search going for you? I am conflicted on whether I should get back to job search or continue my startup. I believe I product will add value but getting it up is a long path.
What are your experiences with job search lately? I have been in SWE and SWE Manager roles. I enjoy SWE Research work more than being a SWE manager.
I briefly had a position this year before running into the wall that is a reduction-in-force. I was hired (along with 2 other engineers) in December and told that the company was looking to grow (great!) only to start on-boarding on a Tuesday in January and receive word that very Friday that there was serious money problems that they had only just realized. I somehow made it through the first layoff 10 weeks later only to get swept up in the next one in August. I had been hoping it would hold out until 2025, alas...
In the last 2 years, I've spent more time hunting for jobs than holding one. This time around I've stuck to searching in my network and have been having surreal experiences where I'm being referred by VPs and C-suite folks and still getting ghosted or very slow walked through the process (a month goes by and I'm still waiting on next steps).
Would love to bust out of this rut, but cant' seem to get my brain to come up with a pivot. I zigged into software development in 2013 (was a middle school teacher prior to that), and I really thought it would last longer than a decade. Not sure where I can zag that will allow me to retire in 20 years.
Luckily, I have savings and a lead on a few hours of freelancing, but health insurance is such an incredible expense for our family (it's more than the mortgage, it's more than child care) that it can't last forever.
In talking with other "knowledge workers" I'm seeing that the struggles engineers have been feeling for 2+ years is leaking into their world. My wife works in an adjacent field and is struggling to find clients/jobs. My friends who were laid off by news media companies aren't finding work producing content. Everything feels like it's in a standstill.
It's become incredibly disheartening, and made me genuinely consider either trying to enter a different line of work, or trying to become a successful creator/entrepreneur instead.
Honestly, I'd say you should continue the startup, since you've got some traction so far and the odds of that becoming sustainable seem about as good (terrible) as getting a traditional job in many industries.
I have been reading the same ad jobs for the same positions for more than a year now - at least where I live - and I have contacted acquaintances to ask how things are in their companies since they advertise.
Guess what? They had no clue and got scared, but luckily enough one of them knew one of the HR ladies and let him know they do this fake job ads to maintain the company's value until the end of the year they will close their accounting books.
You realize how petrified my acquaintance became when he heard that; it's a clear indication that a shit-storm is about to take place for some companies after new year's.
Let's hope all this is a big bluff and false alarm!
This is unsurprising. Any gender can discriminate. There have been multiple studies about some women being hard asses in the workplace so they don't get stereotyped as being a pushover, especially towards other women so they aren't seen as being sexist (even if that makes them more sexist).
I've had two managers indirectly hold paternity leave against me. Both were along the lines of not prorating the numbers during comparisons or saying that others contributed to a major initiative and I didn't have that opportunity when that initiative took place during my leave.
I'm actively looking internally and it's complete shit for the entire past year. Company-wide with over 20k employees and job postings at any given time are about 75-90. Stuff at my level and the level above me is rare. Like maybe 3-5 combined dev positions at any given time at those levels, but many of those already have shoe-ins. Others are on shitty teams or opened internally first so they can take someone external. I'm passively looking externally, but it's equally shitty there. I'm even more discouraged there since I have a disability and it seems that makes it extra hard to be externally hired.
How much do you need money.
If you don't need it, keep running the start up.
If you need an income, and you're open to taking a cut, the market is ok. I took a 50k pay cut at a point ( I'm most of the way back though).
Eventually some defense contractors reached out to me in a different line of work. I completely seized it. I finally escaped from the toddler playpen of fullstack framework stupidity.