The first category in moderation is empowering, the seconds probably sets you ups for behavioral problems. My personal experience with ADHD seems to fit that narrative but it might be a case of reverse or spurious correlation.
So if you do choose to get them a console, choose the games wisely. To be safe prefer games where the player needs to upskill to games where the player needs to grind so it's character gets better.
The other side is something like broccoli... Good for you, tasty (or not) but not something one normally gets excited about.
IN the grand scheme of things the switch is much closer to brocoli than crack. All the things that you are going to worry about are life lessons that come with the device. Do your home work first, moderation, outside still matters... Nothing wrong with starting all that early!
Buy a SNES instead.
Analogue's Super NT works with HDMI although it is sold out so you'll need to use ebay.