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📣 metadat

What movies changed your perception of reality or life?


What movie changed your perception of reality or life, and how?


  👤 bruce511 Accepted Answer ✓
Groundhog Day.

It's such a subtle movie, that it works on multiple levels at the same time. I got to level 2 on the first viewing, but only years later assimilated level 3.

At level 1 it's a simple Romcom movie - boy stuck in a time loop needs to earn girl's love.

Level 2 is that we are all stuck in a time loop. Everyone is functionally living the same day over and over. Same job, same relationships, same everything. (There's even a scene in the movie where Phil describes his predicament and thd barfly replies "welcome to my life".)

Level 3 is even more meta. Because Phil is the only person -not- living the same day. All around him everyone else is the same, but he's evolving. We see him learning piano, and ice-sculpting and so on. He evolves emotionally, and is trying new things. He moves from being self-centred to focused on others.

The genius of the movie, and Murray's performance, is that it's buried, never forced. You're left to figure it out yourself. It's a work of art, disguised as something trivial.


👤 kromem
The Matrix.

While as a kid I would say that I wanted to be downloaded into a video game when I died, the idea that was already the case never even entered my mind.

Even after watching the movie, I was just like "oh man, that's such a neat idea" but still didn't think it was actually the case.

It wasn't until years later reading Nick Bostrom's work that I started to seriously entertain it, and only then as I considered it more seriously (and as things progressed in parallel) that it became a predominant belief.

But for a movie to set in motion a complete shift in how one sees the world and their place in it is a pretty remarkable accomplishment, even if it still required a ton of additional pieces thereafter to arrive.


👤 orev
(Mild spoilers)

Both of these were written stories first, but I first encountered them as movies.

Arrival. I really enjoyed the idea that learning something new could lead to other changes in perception that you wouldn’t think are related. It also led me to other works from Ted Chiang, each of which brought unexpected mind bending concepts.

Solaris. Teaches the lesson that we need to accept that there may be things we just aren’t able to understand.


👤 blhack
Synecdoche NY, specifically this scene: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9PzSNy3xj0

But there is also a scene (which I cannot find online) where the main character (a playwright) is explaining that the only way to make his play work is to make everybody a main character. He realizes that everybody, everywhere, is living out a rich life and that they're the main character of that life.

It is a fantastic movie and i highly recommend it.


👤 lawgimenez
Good Will Hunting

I grew up in a rough neighborhood, in high school my view was limited and I thought there is no going out of trouble, being a black sheep of the family, etc. I saw that movie, and I felt hope for the first time and started making changes for myself.


👤 screye
Pig (2021)

Male grief is never portrayed with the kind of nuance and empathy that it deserves.

Now, I've started reaching out to my friends more often and offering support in a manner that only a fellow man can.

Lastly, it loosened me up. I didn't have to bottle things up and be a pillar for other people. I can now be weak when I was in my weakest moments, and not percieve it as a weakness. (Holy alliteration)


👤 theideaofcoffee
Threads (1984), while it was made for TV in the mid-80s and some of the effects are dated, there's an almost visceral, gnawing, devatastaing, haunting (choose your adjective because not one does it justice) feeling that attaches to yourself that has yet to leave me, I think about that film every few days, especially now with some of the more recent, insane developments in politics and international relations. It reinforced how absolutely fragile everything in this world is and how close a situation to today that film showed might really be. One viewing is enough for one lifetime.

👤 pan69
Cloud Atlas

It's a movie I seem to go back to, to understand more about it and how the different story lines are connected. The philosophy aspect of this film I find appealing and it made think about reality differently although I wouldn't call myself a believer of such things.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWnAqFyaQ5s

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cloud_Atlas_(film)


👤 6510
The man in the white suit 1951

I have some routine (not sure what to call it) where I take a context (by lack of better words) then work backwards.

This topic had me wonder what great lessons or insights in (my) life have not at all been captured by any movie. What followed was like an eruption of great movie ideas. What each movie really needs is at least one amazing plot twist. Nothing really accomplishes that the way changing the viewers perception of life does.

Ill do a crude example but it probably doesn't do justice to the raw idea.

I discover one day that you can always increase your spending to match your income and at the end of your money have a chunk of month left.

I discover that selling your brain in a job leaves your free time without one.

I also discover one day that physical activity is not optional.

I talk with a very successful business man who one day discovered that his chair in front of the TV is only a few meters away from his car and that his personal parking spot is only a few meters from his personal office. After some 30 years he had to walk 150ish meters to the other end of the building and was absolutely exhausted. Only then he realized he didn't get any physical activity at all.

One could forge a plot from that where the protagonist progresses from wealth, a highly successful career, weak and depressed all the way to a shit physical job with crappy pay. The villa, the cars, the credit card wife, the fake friends, it all has to go. Why internet if one can read books. Why drive if one can walk in the rain?


👤 hgs3
Dark City (1998), Alex Proyas. This is an unmarketable movie. I consider knowing its genre to be a spoiler. It is one of those movies where the less you know about it, the better you're viewing experience. If you watch it you must watch the Directors Cut as the theatrical release was dumbed down by the studio execs.

👤 BSOhealth
Recently, Midsommer. I think if you go into it with an open mind (and not get too weirded out by the gore) it asks some really fascinating anthropological and social questions.

By the end of the movie, I was almost entirely on the side of the culture and their behavior made complete sense to me. During the course of the movie I experienced a shift of position and perspective and continues to affect me 4 years later.

All the token others… Pi, Memento, Waking Life, Fight Club, Requiem for a Dream, etc. etc.

I felt like Midsommer was the best interesting film in decades.


👤 mikewarot
Children of Men - 2006 - society would fall apart without a fresh supply of humans, this movie made that very, very clear

The Discovery - 2017 - The thought that we keep doing things over in an imperceptible manner until we get it right, is haunting

Ferris Bueller's Day Off - 1986 - "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." - It told me I could be a little less serious about things, and have more fun

About Time - 2013 - The lesson is to try to roll with whatever happens, and relax


👤 Quinzel
V for Vendetta weirdly change my perspective on concepts of right and wrong, and good and evil. Not in a major way, but just more so in a philosophical way.

👤 magarnicle
Aguirre, The Wrath of God.

I studied it at uni and wrote an essay where I explained that the main character couldn't be a symbol of both fascism AND a film director, because that would mean the director was calling himself a fascist. My lecturer's response was something like "why not?".

I was a very black-and-white thinker at that time, and his response was eye-opening for me.


👤 notaigenerated
"Come and see" and "20 Days in Mariupol". Both are about wars and both affect you the way nothing else does.

The last one is a documentary about the war in Ukraine. The actual raw uninterpreted reality of things that we read about in history books or in the news changes your perspective on many things, from politics to simple things in life that we often take for granted.

News stories force an agenda on you. History books may give you some knowledge about the reality we live in today. THIS lets you live through the traumatic experience of the history books and news story events.


👤 alejohausner
The Ear (1970), released in 1989. A Czech couple comes home from a formal dinner. The husband works for the Party, and knows that their house is bugged. something was said at the dinner suggesting he’s now in disfavor, and may be sent to prison. They fight like Liz and Dick in Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, all the while knowing the surveillance van outside is listening in. It’s a great study in paranoia. Highly recommended.

👤 aristofun
Once you’re familiar with bible, aristotle, platoe snd few other foundational sources - no movie or book can really change your perception. Whatever you see - It’s all been described many times.

👤 rio517
Gattaca, because so many people limit themselves by what they think is possible.

👤 lobito14
Fight Club and The Matrix, but I only understood the latter several years later.

👤 jjj123
Do the Right Thing. Not only is it one of the best movies I’ve ever seen, but I’m reminded of the ending every few months when I read the news. I now have a very different perspective when I see some oppressed group get admonished for protesting the “wrong” way.

👤 koziserek
Earthlings (2005)

as we are born into a civilisation taking for granted that exploitation of other live beings is something natural and ethically acceptable / neutral.

Unfortunately, our lifestyle decisions tend to support a machninery of suffering only comparable to nazi concentration camps.

oh, and speaking of, if you lived far enough (temporarily / culturally / geographically) it's good to recall once in a while what atrocites humans are capable of, even in regards to other humans:

"Zone of Interest" - fresh movie about everyday life in proximity of death camps


👤 spacecadet
Dead Man 1995

I dont know, but probably the last great American "film". Shot on monochrome and depicting American history in raw and surreal way. The industry soon moved on to mainly digital video. Although many contemporary directors still shoot on film. Nolan for one.


👤 ajakate
Melancholia. I don't think I've seen a movie that depicts depression and disaster so brutally. It's a film I keep thinking about every now and again.

👤 neom
American History X was pretty jarring for me. Fight Club too. More subtly: Primer, Upstream Color, White Oleander, The Virgin Suicides - those 4 films gave me a lot to think about as a young man.

👤 hoc
Blade Runner, as it was the first one I saw that was about the meaning of memories and beliefs.

I actually liked The 6th Day when it comes to ideas of our "natural" view on identity and ownership of individual assets etc.

Matrix, of course, for its search for reality/truth behind ones inherited perceptions, no matter what consequences (there are more ideas in the movies, though).


👤 throwawayyy9237
So many great movies mentioned here, I won't repeat them.

I'll just add Hitchcock's The Birds.

I saw it as a kid and it made an impression on me on several levels. For instance, a scary movie doesn't have to be about monsters. And made me realise that other living beings aren't in this planet just to be either food or pets, they're our neighbours.


👤 082349872349872
Macross: Do You Remember Love? (超時空要塞マクロス 愛・おぼえていますか)

I saw it in the movie room at a con, and learned:

(a) there was a world of sci-fi beyond the US

(b) it's possible to follow a movie with neither subs nor dubs

(c) the Itano Circus (板野サーカス) was unlike anything I'd ever seen on screen


👤 timbit42
The Man From Earth

Can't describe this without giving it away.


👤 zebomon
The Fog of War. It caused me to see geopolitics from both a simpler and more constantly ambiguous perspective.

A River Runs through It. Even more so the book, but the movie gets the job done: the meanings of our experiences only make sense once their dust has settled.

The Leftovers. I'm going to cheat a little and say a TV show here. Better than anything else, it draws a connection between the philosophical immensity of things like 2001/Interstellar and the real drama of everyday human lives.


👤 pygar
Yi Yi (2000) https://letterboxd.com/film/yi-yi/

It features a middle-class family living in Taipei. Each of them at different stages of life. There is no central drama except that they are alive. It's a beautiful movie that makes you meditate on the human condition.


👤 Balgair
Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure

Helped me not take life so seriously. And that being super smart isn't the end-all-be-all. You can have a totally excellent time just being kind to others. In fact, kindness is probably the most important thing to be.


👤 leshokunin
For me, nothing comes close to the finale of Star Trek the Next Generation.

"The final frontier isn't space. Space can be explorer without meaning. The final frontier is our minds, it's how we take things in that defines us."

It impacted me deeply.


👤 walterbell

  A Most Violent Year
  Barry Lyndon
  Breaking the Maya Code
  Equilibrium
  Margin Call
  Moonfall
  Good Kill
  Godzilla vs Kong
  Inception
  Seven Days in May
  Simone
  The Leopard / Il Gattopardo
  Trudell
  Until the End of the World

👤 solardev
Into the Wild, this perhaps romanticized / dumb idea that blindly chasing your passion to your demise may still be worth it. Dying from mushroom poisoning doesn't seem so fun though...

Walter Mitty and Big Year, similar adventures about people chasing their silly passions (but not fatally).

Transcendence, Her, and Robot and Frank, some of the very few AI-optimistic movies. I've always believed in the transformative social good of AI, since I first heard of the Borg, but most people and media are staunchly against it. It was nice to see a more friendly viewpoint.

I really enjoyed Arrival too and hope we have an experience like that someday, but the whole time travel thing was a turnoff.


👤 michaeljx
Revolver - 2005 It taught me that the biggest enemy is the one within, i.e. the ego, and taught me to challenge my desires/goals/aspirations and try to understand why it came to be that I have such desires.

👤 wyum
Graveyard of the Fireflies (1988)

Warning: not a good times film.

But it is beautiful in profound and sad ways. It deepened my appreciation for the good circumstances I have been fortunate to enjoy in my life.


👤 brudgers
Chinatown helped me understand California (I’ve lived here for a few years now).

👤 cdrini
I'm not much of an anime person, but I watched an episode of Blue Lock with a friend, and fell in love with it. Watched it over the next few weeks, and it gave me a completely new understanding and appreciation for soccer, ambition, and individualism. As someone who had never had even a passing interest in any sport. Since, I've joined a beginners soccer clinic and absolutely love it.

👤 steego
Lately it’s been The Lobster.

I’ve always been one to recognize a lot of absurdities in life, but this movie got me asking: “What if the absurd false dichotomies are the feature that influential people use over their supporters to test their power and loyalty?”

I’ve also been asking myself, what other absurdities do I still not see and how can I systematically detect those absurdities?


👤 w1nst0nsm1th
- The Thin Red Line.

The narative structure is hard to get the first time you watch the movie, but once you get it, it can change the way you see (the/our) nature.

- The Secret of NIMH.

Saw it the first time at 4 or 5 and was in awe, but it tooks several more years to understand it fully.

- The Truman Show.

It's basically my life.

- Akira.

No particular reason, except it's the first Manga which gets international recognition and propulsed the industry in the grown-up domain.


👤 timbit42
Contact

What would aliens be like if they've existed a billion years longer than us?


👤 latentcall
Lilja 4-ever. The world is a cruel place. People can be truly awful and many people have stories we can’t comprehend.

👤 nntwozz
"Alone in the Wilderness" 2004

Made me move out of the city and off grid, buy a dog and find satisfaction in the simple life.


👤 timbit42
Predestination

How do I describe this without giving it away?


👤 beaugunderson
Shoah - a 9.5 hour documentary about the Holocaust https://letterboxd.com/film/shoah/

Sügisball - an Estonian movie that introduced me to the works of Bohren & der Club of Gore, now my favorite band https://letterboxd.com/film/autumn-ball/

Fitzcarraldo - Werner Herzog moves hell and earth in this film https://letterboxd.com/film/fitzcarraldo/

Chungking Express and In the Mood for Love - Wong Kar-Wai's movies affected me so much that when I went to Hong Kong about half my trip was just looking for the filming locations https://letterboxd.com/film/chungking-express/ & https://letterboxd.com/film/in-the-mood-for-love/

UHF - Probably the reason I like underdogs https://letterboxd.com/film/uhf/


👤 meristohm
Fight Club qnd The Matrix have already been mentioned, and they continue to sink in.

Dakota 38 (documentary about a 330-mile memorial run/ride for the Lincoln-ordered execution of 38 (and later two more) Dakota people on December 26, 1862. The full movie is on YT, and here's an MPR article about it: https://www.mprnews.org/story/2022/12/23/descendants-of-exec... This impacted me because I grew up in MN, didn't learn this in school, and it reminded me that indigenous Americans are still around despite efforts by dominant American culture to squash them.


👤 srhtftw
An Inconvenient Truth (2006)

👤 chrsw
Ex Machina. The lesson I got is we deserve the future we're going to get, for better or worse.

👤 FuturisticGoo
I feel a bit embarassed saying this but, Puss in Boots: The Last Wish.

I've had issues dealing with the concept of death and this movie helped me more than anything else. The panic attack scenes resonated quite hard and the end message left a lasting impact.


👤 dvt
Jodorowsky's The Holy Mountain

👤 mdrzn
Mr Nobody (2009), maybe because I watched it while I was young, but it stayed with me.

"Every path is the right path. Everything could've been anything else. And it would have just as much meaning."


👤 kylecazar
Most recently, I left Oppenheimer with a lasting feeling of disillusionment and pessimism towards government.

I didn't learn anything new (I read American Prometheus), but seeing the affair dramatized so well was pretty moving.


👤 jj999
Robocop made me question capitalism

Total Recall made me question the self

Starship Troopers made me question patriotism

I'm a sucker for Verhoeven's sci-fi flicks.


👤 interbased
Click. Adam Sandler comedy movie that left me in tears by the end. The theme is to live in the moment and appreciate the small things, or life will pass you by before you know it.

👤 nmstoker
2001 - it was on TV one afternoon on a rainy bank holiday in the early 80s, when I was probably far too young to fully appreciate it, and what I saw was simply awe-inspiring.

👤 I_am_tiberius
Law Abiding Citizen

It shows that people who do bad things might have plausible reasons. It makes me think about how we usually only see the negative actions and not the circumstances that lead to them. It also considers whether most of us might react similarly, or if the real villains are those who manipulate others into doing these bad things.


👤 Sscia
Risen, showed the figures of the resurrection not as mythical heroes. Some abstract characters from school but historical Romans and Roman subjects of flesh and blood. Brought history back into religion and the faith as the driving force of historical figures.

👤 superposeur
A shattering film called Open Hearts (2002) made me appreciate that every day is a miraculous gift and that the proper stance toward life is warm hearted gratitude, as well as an awareness that you are a mote in currents beyond your control.

I still think of it as the most (the only?) “grown up” movie I’ve ever seen in its incredible realism.

I saw it many years ago in an art house theater, but oddly have never even heard a mention of it since.


👤 lif
Into the Wild (2007)

-> no man is an island

The Florida Project

-> precariousness of many lives

Waves (2019)

-> ambition & parenting


👤 helph67
"The Man Who Never Was" 1956 British movie made me aware of just one of the MANY ways that Allied intelligence during World War 2 was able to fool the Nazis and potentially save many lives. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Man_Who_Never_Was

👤 isomorph
As an adult: - Under The Skin - especially when I read excerpts of the book

As a teenager: - Syriana - The Matrix - Fight Club - Before Sunrise


👤 JohnMakin
Don’t ask me why, but the couple of scenes with the Jurassic Park sys admin stuff made me want to get into computers.

👤 hariis
Not a movie but the Television series, The Good Place Incredibly brilliant portrayal of Eastern philosophy in daily life, just Wow!

👤 caviv
American Beauty 1999 - About getting older and understanding what do you want in life and what is really important, if you don't do it now you might never will.

👤 say_it_as_it_is
Pink Floyd's "The Wall"

👤 rurban
When I was 5 I watched Frankenstein's Bride beginning scene, and when the monster appeared in the burning cellar it frightened the shit out of me. For several years I refused to walk down the dark stairs to our cellar. And stairs in the night were also taboo.

👤 bewestphal
Her

People’s relationship with technology for its ability to solve your every need and desire will be commonplace.


👤 eightturn
the movie "Smoke"

especially the scene where Auggie tells his friend (Paul) to... slow down. https://youtu.be/JGV_h36uZ5E

at the time, it felt society was telling me to 'speed up', get this done, achieve that, yayaya.. but I sorta preferred taking the slower route. This scene helped cement that mindset. Tall trees grow slow.


👤 evandev
The Diving Bell and the Butterfly

👤 taigi100
Peaceful Warrior - by far my fav book / movie. Highly recommend watching it :)

👤 tootie
Ran, Eraserhead, Paths of Glory, Dersu Uzala, 2001, High and Low, They Live.

👤 ex2can
Slavoj Zizek - The Pervert's Guide to Cinema / The Pervert's Guide to Ideology

👤 alfredgg
Aftersun (2022)

Having pass through a depression myself, the one which hit me most was Aftersun (by Charlotte Wells, 2022). It made me realize how silently mental illness affects one and their surroundings.


👤 nuclearsugar
Bokeh (2017)

Premise: Everyone disappears from Earth without a known reason, except for 3 people.

This movie made me realize that everything we do is connected to other people. That awareness changed everything for me.


👤 moomoo11
Cloud Atlas.

I liked the book. I loved the movie.

I personally believe that infinity is a wonderful concept and so honestly anything is possible. Even the impossible.


👤 vidanay
Dead Poets Society

👤 jozzas
Ikiru

👤 fullstick
The movies Okja and Earthlings. Made me realize I could not continue to support the exploitation and abuse of animals.

👤 leshokunin
Akira Ghost in the Shell (and the Stand Alone Complex series) Dune To some extent, Arrival

👤 timbit42
District 9

How would we treat aliens if they arrived?


👤 thread_id
So many... here are a few

The Heart is a Lonely Hunter

Sophies Choice

English Patient

Master and Commander


👤 mrbluecoat
The Notebook (one of the few films that have made me cry). Also, Life Is Beautiful (1997).

👤 huytersd
Fight Club in my late teens.

👤 histories
2001: A Space Odyssey

The Tree of Life

The Matrix

very basic answers I guess, but they are among my very favorite.


👤 sshine
Annihilation

This movie gave me a new perspective on evolutionary life.


👤 arihantparsoya
Prisoners The Dark Knight Blue is the Warmest Color

👤 underlogic
Pi Darren Aronofsky

👤 dboreham
The Matrix, Inception, Transcendence.

👤 burrish
And what about you metadat ?

👤 RAdrien
The Man in the Gray Flannel Suit

👤 momentmaker
The Matrix

👤 jay3ss
Annihilation

👤 febed
Samsara

Solaris


👤 alfor
Not a movie but the biblical lectures of Jordan Peterson.

Made me start to understand the bible and christianity from a scientific perspective.

From there reading the bible understanding more about the roots of our culture and seing the constant propaganda against it in the media, the movies, etc.

It's been eye opening.

Then you can read Atlass shrugged and live not by lies.

I used to be very progressive, left leaning, not anymore.


👤 KolyaKornelius
Fucking Amal