Has anyone not affiliated with these two companies compared them and have real numbers for e.g. latency or qps for various workloads? Even audited tpc is something.
What are the performance or management (such as backup/restore, alter tables, extensions, etc) tradeoffs compared to regular pgsql (sharded or not)?
Their Managed platform handles backup/restore, encryption, SSL, metrics, upgrades, and one-click scaling. You can even configure multi-region clusters with read replicas. Their platform is not very flexible with compute, however. You have fixed CPU and RAM sizes to choose from.
Happy to answer specific questions.
[1] https://docs.yugabyte.com/preview/explore/connection-manager...