Non-professionally: Thing of Things's "Models: A Summary". I basically reread this thing every day for a few months in college until my brain reprogrammed itself into a shape conducive to finding and dating people. https://thingofthings.wordpress.com/2018/05/25/models-a-summ...
https://www.kalzumeus.com/2011/10/28/dont-call-yourself-a-pr...
His advice about salary negotiation was also formative for a younger me.
Implementing these practices has brought a remarkable shift in my overall programming life and allowed me to move on to new horizons