HACKER Q&A
📣 IndigoIncognito

How Would You Raise a Child?


Given you had unlimited resources (including money) & if you had an abundance of free time how would you raise a child to give it the best chance as success & fulfilment in life.

What gender & why? Would you do anything to prepare like research any topics? Would adjust your diet/ health before you conceive to yield better genetics? What would be your preferred age of parenthood?


  👤 sinuhe69 Accepted Answer ✓
Why did you ask a question like that? Do you have the resources? Because the real world is constrained by resources, thus your question is not relevant to most of us. A relevant question is how to navigate best when resources are limited and we’re bound by many constraints (laws, societal norms, spouse’s expectation etc.)

It’s also worth noting that we should live our life as well. Raising children is only one part of this life. Success and fulfillment depends on so many factors, that no effort can bring warranty, especially if we venture outside of social norms and expectations (do a monastic life brings success and fulfillment? How can a preparation for corporate life can help succeed in a monastic life?)


👤 IonIsedHN
One person said "BIll gates has 3 children, now all adults, one of his children is Phoebe Gates, one look at her online presence says all you need to know, after a certain point I feel like money brings more disadvantages than advantages for children." but it was marked as dead

What exactly is wrong with her? Sure she is a bit pretentious, but she goes to Stanford, she is an intelligent woman!