I want to help them help me - by laying me off - but how do I do it?
I mainly just don't want to be completely reckless by quitting. I'm financially secure-ish, and I'd like to keep it that way. So, some type of severance package or unemployment insurance at least (which I cannnot get if i just quit), would be nice.
Do I just ask my manager, "Hey, can you lay me off?"
Outside of that, I could just use a break, there's nothing much new going on at work, etc.
Thanks for any thoughts.
You may be financially secure-ish now, but consider what your financial situation might be if you are unemployed for 12-18 months. That might be too long, even with a few months worth of severance.
If you're just bored, I would ride it out until the market stabilizes a bit.
That said, if you trust your manager, then as others suggested, you can casually express that if there's a future round of layoffs, you are open to being considered.
I wish you the best of luck.
Just start looking. "My company is having layoffs, I wasn't in the first one but it seems like things are not stable" is a perfectly acceptable reason to give your prospective new employer for wanting to move on, and it's always easier to interview when you aren't unemployed yet (easier to feel relaxed).
Another idea, you could see if the company might be open to an unpaid sabbatical.
The only sure-fire solution in my mind is to get another job, and the way to make that into a break is to set your start date later. Most employers don't even mind a start date that's around a month into the future.
I just started taking longer lunches, was always polite and civil, but stopping making effort to communicate with directors when we were in the same room together.
Eventually, i was included in the layoff!
Some companies'll ask [informally] if anyone wants to be considered