And then, there are ways to set the update time and to postpone that.
That dark pattern is as long you have internet. No internet, another Button "no" will appear.
I'm always on Windows. The first things I do after a fresh install is to remove bloatware (with scripts, or Software debloater, switch off the the telemetry (google for winaero, or shut up windows), switch off the auto reboot (google for a way to stop win10 reboot after updates. The one where you have to replace REBOOT.AC and other files is the proper one) and creating a fresh profile without the bloatware, delete the first created Profile. Takes around 15mins of time.
Have fun, M8!