C/C++ books on infrastructure(building, linking, crosscompiling, etc.)?

Most of the books are focusing on language itself while skipping such important topics as building third-party code, build systems (including how to bridge different systems (e.g. consume Make project from CMake one, or how to consume project without build system at all)), how to utilize system package managers to link libraries, cross-compilation, etc.

Any suggestions on where to read about those topics in a structured format or you learn this mostly through trial and error? Thanks!