HACKER Q&A
📣 xeonmc

Preferred word to describe “Unnecessarily complainsome grumpy person”?


I started reading HN fairly recently, the posters here struck me as having a different distribution of recurring (non-technical) vocabulary that is quite different from other platforms.

I think that besides the obvious age distribution factor, the spectrum of social scenarios more frequently encountered by the HN demographic probably also contributes to certain common situations or stereotypes promoting/stimulating the use of more apt descriptions for them, whereas for those who less frequently encounter them there would be no occasion to dig out a dictionary word from memory to describe it.

For example, there seems to be a particular adjective that sees pretty frequent usage, used to label “cranky jaded programmer being unnecessarily complain-some or dismissive of new ideas”, which I only learned because of repeated occurrence on HN, but the actual word seems to escape me. I remember that it seems to be not too dictionary-obscure of a word, just that there seems to fewer occasions that calls for it in other online conversations.

What is the first word that comes to your mind when describing such a person?


  👤 liveduo Accepted Answer ✓
From wikipedia:

Torvalds sarcastically quipped about the name git (which means "unpleasant person" in British English slang): "I'm an egotistical bastard, and I name all my projects after myself. First 'Linux', now 'git'."


👤 telebell
A kvetch. If you need a word for something/someone annoying, unreasonable, unpleasant, lazy, cantankerous or absurd, Yiddish is here for you.

👤 PuffinBlue
Curmudgeon, Naysayer, Grouch

👤 benrapscallion
I asked ChatGPT. Response: A person who unnecessarily complains and is grumpy might be described as a "grouch," "crank," "curmudgeon," or "grump." These words suggest someone who is habitually irritable and unhappy, and tends to complain or find fault with things unnecessarily.

👤 dspillett
The act of always complaining or otherwise being difficult is often called being cantankerous, though there isn't a direct noun for that.

There are a few words that might fit what you are looking for, of which I think the best is “curmudgeon”, and for lexical flexibility you can act curmudgeonly or be curmudgeonous. I'm not sure that curmudgeonous is a “real” word, spellcheckers refuse it and I rarely if ever see it elsewhere, but I like it as it essentially means the same as cantankerous but with less of a sharp edge - the difference between just naturally being difficult (curmudgeonous) and actively trying to be difficult (cantankerous).

Both are often associated with older people more than younger, though in the fast moving world of tech you don't have to be very old to appear to have ancient views!


👤 Tepix
old fart, pessimistic, realistic, comfort zone

slightly related: I like the definition of "programmer" at urban dictionary:

A person who is paid to professionally scream at a computer.

Programmer: "AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH-oh, it works."


👤 Hamuko
Cantankerous. It's basically my nickname.

👤 stcg
In Dutch I would say 'zeurkous' (literally translated 'whiny stocking') meaning something like 'grouch'

👤 DukeSanoj
Miesepeter, if you like to borrow from german

👤 maverick66
Somebody once called me irksome which I rather took as a compliment and I think is great for this definition.

👤 greggarious
ornery (comparative ornerier, superlative orneriest) (Appalachia) Cantankerous, stubborn, disagreeable.

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/ornery


👤 irjoe
curmudgeon

👤 mikewarot
I'm a crochety old grumpy greybeard, now get off my lawn! ;-)

👤 bovermyer
Nerfbait, if Nerf guns are allowed at the office.

👤 cassianoleal
Honestly, just call me by my name ffs...

👤 kgwxd
Experienced

👤 aquir
Goblin

👤 jimkleiber
Crochety might also work.

👤 janmarsal
Hey, that's me!

👤 ineedausername
investor

👤 spencerchubb
Cynic

👤 quickthrower2
Grinch

👤 dr_dshiv
A Grump

👤 Veen
Whinger.

👤 reducesuffering
grouch

👤 kranner
disagreeable

👤 jgaa
intelligent ;)