- online meetups: no opportunity to interact meaningfully with others
- a local hacker space: very few software engineers hang out there, it's mostly semi-retired former manager types not-really-working on impossible unfunded startup ideas
- Rust (IRL, on Reddit, on Discord): shallow community of mostly students and sycophants, actual Rust devs seem to work in isolation or only communicate on Twitter
What else should I try?
Find out where those people are spending time online and IRL. Determine how closely you are connected to them and if anyone you know can make an introduction.
Go to conferences and do your best to have quality conversations with several people.
Create content for the kind of people you want to meet.
Before COVID I networked a lot. This is how I re-building my network.
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1. it can be any CRM tool really, but better to keep it simple
Lowering your standards.