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📣 achenet

What advice would you give your younger self?


What advice would you give your younger self?


  👤 ninethirty Accepted Answer ✓
I would give myself an understanding of status. Women are attracted to high-status (doctor, lawyer) and thus men spend time attaining status.

But status is affected by subcultures; if I spend 6-months learning how to write an NES emulator or speed-running N64 GoldenEye or reaching 2200 elo in chess -- I'll get status from a small group of gaming enthusiasts but in the larger context its (probably) not a good use of my time.

For example, I got a double major in unrelated fields (I was ambitious and wanted to signal how smart I was), but it would have been better had gotten straight A's and masters degree (a double-major only impresses 1st-year undergrads; in the larger context of academic status, its irrelevant).

It would also teach my younger self about counter-signaling in the status game https://host.kelley.iu.edu/riharbau/cs-randfinal.pdf

Also not too much alcohol and HIIT fitness.


👤 indoorskier
Take risks, say yes to all opportunities, try to fail often.

I don't mean risks in the sense of things that put you physically or mentally in harm's way, but trying ideas, learning new things, new activities etc.

Some reasons: the explore/exploit tradeoff is massively in favour of exploring when you're young, you have almost nothing to lose, very few responsibilities and so much time (relatively speaking to later in life).


👤 DerekBickerton
I have no regrets, since all mistakes are a lesson to learn from. You don't grow if you don't make mistakes. That doesn't mean I'm hap-hazard and do dangerous things, it just means I transmute failure/mistakes into lessons.

My twenties were experimental. I learned the ropes. I failed often and failed early. Now to inculcate those lessons into everyday life. This is like turning lead into gold.


👤 beardyw
20 to 30 is 10 years

30 to 40 is 8 years

40 to 50 is 6 years

50 to 60 is 4 years

60 to 70 is 2 years

After that it's just a blur Don't sleepwalk into being old


👤 nathants
prioritize physical and mental health. deprioritize anything that threatens it. bonus points for saving space for curiosity and play.