Is there any providers that provide this sort of hosting? Is this kind of what those old school "shared hosting" PHP-type hosting providers (like Hostgator, for example) are providing? Or is that different. I guess those are more locked down, you can't just run anything, but they normally come with Ruby, PHP, Node and so on.
Do shared hosts support node now? I havent used a shared host since I learned PHP, but given the effective difference in how node scripts are ran vs php/RoR/etc, it seems like that would end up complicated
Edit: Quick google answered my last question - shared hosting providers that also support nodejs tend to do so via vps