Have others experienced the same, gaslighting from Amazon?
On the other hand, about 5% of the time an item is several days late, and about half of the time that's due to delay during shipping, and the other half is delay in sending out to ship.
I don't think Amazon is lying. Logistics is just hard. I would guess that in your case, there was only 1 item left in stock and someone else ordered it right before you did and the database wasn't updated in time. Then the "month from now" was the most conservative estimate of when the manufacturer would send more stock, but then the manufacturer sent new stock straight away, and so it's going to take 2 days to arrive to Amazon and process, and another 2 to send to you.
The reliability of Amazon's logistics and shipping, at mega-scale, is essentially state-of-the-art for 2022. But it's not perfect. But that doesn't mean Amazon is "lying" or "gaslighting" -- it's just that no systems are perfect.
It's not unusual on the other hand to get free or affordable 1-day shipping from other retailers like Best Buy, Target, Walmart, Office Depot, Adorama, etc.
I think Amazon figures if you subscribed to Prime for 10 years you are hooked, but every other retailer sees shipping as a way they can impress you.
Ive gotten the feeling that Amazon doesnt actually know how to do final mile delivery properly, especially considering how much money they waste by sending 4 different vans to my house within a single day
This is all in a large city.
On the other hand, I have a warehouse in town, most stuff gets here next day.
I did an online chat with an Amazon rep, explained the problem, they apologized and changed it to next-day delivery. The rep said that I had to click something on the order page to get 1-day delivery. If that's true, it's a pretty slimy way to treat customers, hoping they won't click that option and thereby saving money on delivery.
If it happened just once, it's probably just some warehouse/inventory updation delay or something.
In my country (not USA) Amazon is very punctual, and sometimes I even get things a day early.
Edit: I WILL take a moment to complain about getting higher prices on items when signed in on an account than incognito. Sign in and they jump back up.
The absolute explosion of amazon's popularity as a seller and storefront has been the source of their prosperity and problems. Growth never magically becomes easy, no matter how big you are.
As of right now - 1pm on Wednesday - the earliest delivery date listed for Prime items is Monday. In my experience about half of what I order today will get here Monday; the rest may take anywhere from an extra day to an extra week.
Granted I'm sure my center doesn't have most of what I buy - it's not large - but still it's confounding