Teach your kids poker, not chess: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31435034
Teach your kids bridge, not poker: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=31459044
Good numeracy and literacy. In particular not being fightened of STEM subjects.
I'm a school governor to help make education better for my kids and those around them. Many of my relatives went to (very well known / pricy) private ("public") schools and I wouldn't consider anything other than a local normal school for my kids, now in their teens and doing well. It's worth noting Plomin's views[1] on what overdoing education actually achieves...
Homeschooling with a rigid curriculum, something I associate with religious homeschoolers and parents trying to protect their children from the “real world” while simulating the classroom at home, seems like the wrong approach to me.
Mostly it's a matter of NOT crushing their curiosity, and engaging it positively whenever it shows up.
I might also teach them how to google.
Sometimes it is outdoors survival stuff, model rocketry, playing with instruments(they never want to actually take any actual lesson), and electronics.
I want to have them see me work on my own projects and read and be good in the world too.