This really shows signs of mental health issues, especially what you posted on your website, nestedparens.com.
"I've mostly just been replying on Text Edit on my mac, and they've been replying through Twitter and various official Youtube channels from around hollywood."
"There's a lot of people from around tech involved."
"They" don't exist.
"Paranoid thinking typically includes persecutory beliefs, or beliefs of conspiracy concerning a perceived threat towards oneself (i.e. "Everyone is out to get me")." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paranoia
I have little snitch running on my Mac but haven't noticed anything out of the ordinary. I've played around with firewall settings on the modem and router, and have tried some of the Eero pro features. Nothing has helped.