HACKER Q&A
📣 swman

30s single man, which city should I move to?


I'm in the US but I'm open to all suggestions. I'm at a point where I feel kinda bored where I live, and maybe its due to burn out. I want to try living in a new city, preferably somewhere that is not too expensive but offers a good quality of life. Tech scene is important but not necessary.


  👤 mudrockbestgirl Accepted Answer ✓
Somewhere in Southeast Asia like Bangkok? If you can handle the weather, living there is fun, convenient, cheap, and exciting for at least a while. Also good access to beaches and islands.

👤 cafard
As an American, I would remark that in most of the US you won't have to adapt too much to the culture. I think that much of the northern Midwest is congenial, and mostly not too expensive.

👤 theyknowitsxmas
If I was American I'd be so appreciative of how far I can go without leaving the country. Do I hate life in New York City? Check this baggage, I'm going to Guam!

👤 pandemicPandaaa
Wherever you end up brother avoid Florida. It may look tempting with no tax laws and the weather but hobbies and dating scene wise its pretty dull .

👤 agmand
Barcelona, I'd say. Foreign-friendly, ok tech culture, lots to do, plenty of cultural activities, great summers (if you can stand the tourists).

You'd have to learn at least spanish though, and ideally basic catalan: it's an internacional city and lots of people try to get away with speaking only english, but this is frowned upon as a lack of interest in local culture.


👤 giantg2
Maybe a smaller college town near a city. That can be cheap, have a tech scene, entertainment, etc.

👤 gregsadetsky
The Nomad List city guide may be a good starting point to compare cities, get inspired, read reviews, etc. -- https://nomadlist.com/

👤 randomhodler84
New York City. You should find what you are looking for.

👤 snicky
If you want to experience an entirely new culture you can try Japan or Taiwan. BYO remote job and you will have the best of both worlds.

👤 2143
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

Good quality of life, yet relatively cheap. You can totally get by with English.

Congrats on being able to move anywhere you want.


👤 metadat
What do you value most?

Are you looking for a dating scene? LTR or just a playboy?


👤 skibz
Cape Town, South Africa.

👤 IronWolve
Somewhere safe, jobs, things to do, good economy. Dallas maybe.

👤 zn44
Lisbon, great weather and food, big tech/nomad community

👤 derencius
méxico city for sure.

👤 nathants
hawaii.