That's by design; it's part of the filter.
It's been a while since I've been around them parts, but I was able to survive by going to dev meetups, meeting people doing startups, and getting to know them directly. Essentially, building an underground network of people who I could just start working with without all the tech bro posturing.
Doing it that way takes a while, it's a bit of human interaction work, and you'll learn things at the meetups you'll actually use at your job - plus having a strong network is useful in other ways.
In the end, I made some great friends and got to learn from some amazing people whom I would otherwise have no chance to even be around.
Good luck.
(I'd also be curious to see the list)