And yes, going back to therapy is on my line of sight :D
Mr. Penumbra's 24-Hour Bookstore by Robin Sloan
It's got some tech aspects to it since the main character is starting to get into using programming to investigate a mystery and that bit definitely feels motivating. We all have a bunch of problems that we deal with in every day life that we just need a little push to start solving. But it also is just a solid mystery book that's somewhat rooted in history with some great characters (although I think the main character and his love interest are kind of the blandest of the bunch). I don't want to say anymore since I'll get into spoiling it but I'll leave you with this:
festina lente
Even if you have zero interest in the culinary world, you'll still enjoy the stories - and maybe even get motivated by some of them.
The crappiest CRUD-app making Java job in a toxic office is a cushy vacation compared to the life of a chef :)
[0] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6583629-you-re-it-on-hid...
My takes (in random order):
- Both Johns already bagged years of professional game development experience before ID was formed. Romero started submitting games to magazines in mid-80s and Carmack in 1989. This probably explains why they managed to push out games so fast.
- John Carmack went from Apple ][ tile mapped games (Shadowforge and Wraith) to horizontal smooth scrolling (Commander Keen) in about 1 year, and to ray caster (Wolfenstein) in about 1 year, and to BSP (Doom) in a bit more than 1 year, and to real 3D (Quake) in 2.5 years. And this is only the rendering part. He was super focused and super efficient.
- Tools are really important to rapid iteration. Romero's 2D editor (forgot the name) was used throughout the early years, which says something.
- Early programmers *have* to deal with assembly language routinely. This probably dispelled a lot of "magic" and one of the primary reasons why some of them were so good. Essentially everyone who programs games for long enough is a low level programmer. I wonder if modern programmers should take the same grinding.
- This is probably controversial but I believe Romero leaving ID tipped the balance and I find ID games starting from Quake 2 are less interesting.
- Everyone who wants to get serious about tech should take a few weeks off and concentrate on learning and working on difficult stuffs. Preferably more time but a few weeks should be the minimum.
A tree grows in brooklin, Betty Smith.
Cutting for Stone, Abraham Varghese.
They are not light reading. But you do feel like you are a better person after you’re done reading them.
Good luck.
It is still a very original book, and will strongly influence your thoughts on basically everything: love, music, literature, architecture, science, religion.
Volume 1 is also amazingly accessible, and often very funny. If you don't like dry philosophy books which must invent their own language systems, but still fail to bring their basic points across, you will be in good company - because Schopenhauer hates them. He frequently reminds the reader that if someone has truly and fully understood something, he can explain it in simple sentences. And Schopenhauer delivers.
https://www.amazon.com/World-Will-Representation-Vol/dp/0486...
Read the New Testament and then the Bhagavad Gita. Jesus's words are uplifting but there's a lot of information that he gave the disciples that didn't make it into the Book. The Gita can be viewed as the "missing manual".
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I just lost my cat recently and had a birthday, so I'm in a deeply existential mood.
"All things are impermanent." It's as true as true can be. One day the cat is here, fluffy and meowing. The next day the cat is gone, and unlike the one in the story the cat is not ever coming back. Everything is like this: temporary, transient, contingent, impermanent.
The only thing, if anything, that we can "take with us" or that outlasts us is the effect we had on the world around us while we were alive. That is the closest thing to a "possession" you'll ever have.
So look to that. If you seek meaning in life, try helping people. Be kind. Cherish every moment. Feel and express love.
Hope this helps. :)
I run this site and we have authors pick their favorite books around topics/themes, here are a few that were inspirational/uplifting that might hit the right spot.
The best books on actually living before you die https://shepherd.com/best-books/actually-living-before-you-d...
The best uplifting contemporary novels https://shepherd.com/best-books/uplifting-contemporary-novel...
The best uplifting climate fiction books https://shepherd.com/best-books/uplifting-climate-fiction
The best fantasy books that are the most uplifting https://shepherd.com/best-books/fantasy-that-are-the-most-up...
My personal rec is Killer of Men by Christian Cameron. I LOVE this book and it really hit me at the right time. I love it as it is written by a Greek warrior looking back over his life as an older man, and it is a great story based on a really interesting time in history. As he walks you through his life I loved his attitude and the way he navigated it, I got a lot of inspiration and lessons from it.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7108725-start-with-why
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/16144853-leaders-eat-las...
presently reading:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/38390751-the-infinite-ga...
Before these, I've really appreciated:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_7_Habits_of_Highly_Effecti...
Someone already suggested Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4069.Man_s_Search_for_Me... ...and I absolutely agree!
Next in my queue is Flow by prof. Mihai Csikszentmihalyi:
https://www.ted.com/talks/mihaly_csikszentmihalyi_flow_the_s...
Happy reading! :)
Edit: formatting
Definitely check out Leonardo da Vinci's biography by Walter Isaacson. It gives a delightful account of da Vinci's life and his exploits. It's hard not to feel inspired after reading it. (It also has 120+ illustrations of da Vinci's drawings and notes. They're all digitized; you can flip through them here[0].
A random teaser from a recent comment[1]: da Vinci spent a lot of time dissecting human corpses and horses and made many draft drawings. Then he declares in his notebook, "I'm going to write a treatise on human anatomy; it will be better than those created by surgeons because I can draw exploded views of arms and muscles from different angles." He never finishes it. But, he discovered[2] the functioning of the aortic valve in the heart!
[0] http://www.bl.uk/manuscripts/Viewer.aspx?ref=arundel_ms_263
The mindful self compassion workbook[1] is a cbt like guidebook to treating yourself well (mentally/emotionally)
Brene Brown’s books [2] help mentally reframe shame and give you an added awareness to how your past experiences/mental patterns influence your current experience/interpretation of events. She also has a ted talk on Netflix for a short intro to her overall approach.
Braiding Sweetgrass[3] by Robin Wall Kimmerer is currently one of my favorite books. Some aspects are depressing particularly around our current culture but I found it also gave me hope by laying out an alternative and healthier way of interacting with the world.
[0] - https://bookshop.org/books/hope-in-the-dark-untold-histories...
[1] - https://bookshop.org/books/the-mindful-self-compassion-workb...
[2] - https://bookshop.org/books/daring-greatly-how-the-courage-to...
[3] - https://bookshop.org/books/braiding-sweetgrass-3e12996d-ea04...
Closest I’ve come so far is to read books that make me cry with laughter! I feel at my best after reading these kinds of books and more inspired than any self help book has ever made me feel.
My no 1 recommendation is “let’s pretend this never happened” by Jenny Lawson (aka the bloggess) of all her books it’s hands down the best and the funniest and i reread it regularly because it’s so unpredictable and unlikely! (Though the randomness does feel forced at times)
The only other book that springs to mind is getting things done by David Allen it helped me sort things out of my head to make room to be inspired.
Awareness by Tony Dmello and The greatest salesman in the world by Og Mandino
Some context: Last year was an awful year, lost my entire net worth and got super depressed- work lost its meaning and took sometime to recover- I wrote about it here: https://www.vice.com/en/article/bvnn3a/i-lost-dollar400000-a...
But a friend recommended both of those books and they helped me get back on track- PS. I am very much an atheist, so the recommendations might seem offtrack but both of the books carry remarkable advise.
Factfulness
P.S. But I also like his "1776" book - https://ivypanda.com/essays/book-report-on-1776-by-david-mcc... (a little review for those who are interested).
My recommendation is Simone de Beauvoir's Ethics of Ambiguity. It details various strategies people have for confronting their own existential terror, and ultimately works to develop an ethical system for a world without meaning.
I've found it very insightful for helping to recognize your own behaviors that are effectively ways of denying the true existential questions that are haunting you throughout your life.
Darwin Among the Machines
Turing’s Cathedral
Analogia
I would also look into the possibility of attending a guided hallucinogen session a la Pollan
The book is organized by his writings on the various aspects of life, and his thoughts on what other philosophers have written on these topics.
I found the book to be inspiring, especially for personal journaling of my own thoughts on life.
- Listen to recitation of the Quran [1]
0. https://www.amazon.com/Road-Mecca-Muhammad-Asad/dp/188775237...
Untamed by Glennon Doyle is also great, though is more geared towards women.
Also, the stoics. I’m enjoying the practicing stoic by Ward Farnsworth. They’re surprisingly accessible
Note: Insofar as it aims at tranquility (apatheia = avoidance of passions), it might not help you to get more motivated, though.
- Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl (existential psychologist and holocaust survivor - some principles of finding meaning in life's circumstances from someone who went through a concentration camp)
- 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson (Despite the politicized figure he became, the book is more about finding meaning in adopting responsibility with each rule being an example of how to do so)
- Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck by Mark Mason (light hearted self help, but some nice principles in it)
- Meditations by Marcus Aurelius (a little dated, but contains some nice aphorisms. Audible has a really great version read by Richard Armitage, the guy who played Thorin in the Hobbtit)
- Give the New Testament a shot (not everyone's cup of tea, but several billion have found it helpful in finding a meaningful life so its probably worth a shot)
Also, don't neglect audio books! I've found going for walkins while listening to these kind of books a great way to relax and reflect.
I tried to find translations for them, but with no luck.
The Fountainhead - Ayn Rand
It's Not About The Bike - Lance Armstrong
Ultramarathon Man - Dean Karnazes
Charles Proteus Steinmetz: The Electrical Wizard of Schenectady - Robert Bly
Report From Engine Co 82 - Dennis Smith
The Universe Speaks in Numbers: How Modern Math Reveals Nature's Deepest Secrets - Graham Farmelo
The Man Who Loved Only Numbers: The Story of Paul Erdos and the Search for Mathematical Truth - Paul Hoffman
The Man Who Knew Infinity: A Life of the Genius Ramanujan - Robert Kanigel
Also, I haven't read it yet myself, but I have heard good things about The Last Lecture[1] by Randy Pausch, and have it queued up to read soon.
Have started reading this one recently, really fun read so far. Book's focus is on Dharma.
Shoe Dog by Phil Knight
Ride of a Lifetime by Bob Iger
How Will You Measure Your Life? by Clayton M. Christensen
Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins
The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry.
Karma Yoga (S. Vivekananda)
The Power of Now (E. Tolle)
Novel/fiction... All the light we cannot see
Books ‘The Alchemist’ by Paulo Coelho ‘Enlightenment Now: The Case for Reason, Science, Humanism, and Progress’ by Steven Pinker ‘Designing Your Life: Build a Life that Works for You’ by Bill Burnett, Dave Evans ‘Exhalation’ and ‘Stories of Your Life and Others’ by Ted Chiang
Movies ‘It’s A Wonderful Life’ ‘Dead Poet’s Society’ ‘Everything Everywhere All At Once’ ‘King Richard’ ‘Shawshank Redemption’ Anything Studio Ghibli
The Egg, by Andy Weir