My pessimistic take is that it is currently about 2%, or 1-in-50, which is far too high for comfort.
The US is confined by its Wolfowitz Doctrine, Russia is confined by its history of 25 million dead in WW2.
Neither is capable of backing down. Things will proceed to nuclear.
Nuclear weapons are their most powerful when not used.
More seriously, you have an un-hinged dictator with nuclear weapons - when he loses, who knows what he'll do. A real egotarian would say "If I can't win, then everyone has to lose". The only upside is that there's one less dictator (wannabe?) with his finger on the nuclear button than there was last year.
Talking about Russia, AFAIK only Putin that is cornered enough to want to use it (and his aides I guess). The world, AFAIK, signals that they won't have problem forgiving Russia if the current regime changes. So I guess it's higher for civil war / coup in Russia before nuclear solution.
I don't know with smaller tactical nuclear though (district size maybe).