We don't have kids because we prefer disposable income, sleeping in, spontaneity, and not having to live in a stew of constant muck.
Having traveled extensively, my partner and I are secure in the belief that the planet has plenty of people already.
If you develop an attachment with somebody, even if you have banished any hostility and eliminate sadistic tendencies, even if you never get angry at them , even if you are completely dedicated to see, hear and understand them, even if you could avoid the inevitable accidents that make people feel unmirrored, you would still hurt them by leaving -- no matter if it is breaking up, drifting away, or "death do us part".
It's still a game worth playing.
my mother thinks that if I don't have any children, my old age will be lonely and miserable.
but I think that's selfish thinking. a person shouldn't be given birth to the obligation of taking care of another person.
I found it is amusing that we seem to spend a big portion of our lifetime on preparing for a more comfortable death.