How do I help my elderly grandmother remotely?

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My grandmother has a Windows 10 PC that looks like it was set up by Geek Squad. We used the built-in Quick Assist app and while I was in I saw a new browser, "Wave Browser" [1], it looks like snuck into her AppData directory. There's also an anti-virus, Webroot, I believe was installed by Geek Squad, which is now out-of-license.She's called me a few times since, complaining of not remembering her passwords and other small things. I'm worried she's going to have her identity stolen with passwords that are literally her username plus a symbol.How can I best help in 2022? I've looked at Alexa Together [2], which provides everything but remote access. I'm considering getting her to use a password manager but I'm doubtful she'll remember how it works or that her passwords were generated by the built-in password generator if Chrome.Sometimes she'll call me to ask for help but I'll tell her she needs to first open the Windows search menu then type in Quick Assist and exchange codes but even that whole process seems to stress her out. Should I suggest unattended access? And if so, what's the best option? Anydesk Unattended Access?Windows seems like an incredibly hostile OS [EDIT: to her interests of a safe and secure compute environment) but I'm worried buying her a Chromebook will just be too much for her to handle even though it's just Chrome (which she already uses).HN, I need your help![1] https://old.reddit.com/r/sysadmin/comments/ql7x48/wavebrowser_malicious_browser_showing_up_across_a/[2] https://www.amazon.com/Alexa-Together/b?ie=UTF8&node=21390531011

mitchbob · Accepted Answer

It took a while, but my 92 year old mom is now comfortable using remote access in Zoom to let me help her. We use it often enough--typically a couple of times a week--that she stays in practice. She calls me on the phone anytime she needs help, I start a meeting, she clicks a link to my Zoom personal meeting room that I've put in her browser's Bookmarks bar, she shares her screen once she's connected (this was the part that took her a while to get), and I request remote access. We've both got fast internet connections, so we go from zero to remote access in under a minute.

hitsurume · Answer

Do you know if she's using her computer for anything financial related or just plain sending emails?Depending on your own schedule, I would set her passwords for anything serious for her, like banking, and when she needs to login to those websites, you can remote in via teamviewer or what not and login for her, or tell her the password over the phone. You'd be essentially a human password manager, but this would allow you to help her with anything serious and important without consequences and also you would know her information in an emergency without jumping through hoops.

TheGrkIntrprtr · Answer

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barbe · Answer

I don't know where you all are, but many U.S. communities have senior centers that have volunteers to help seniors with computer issues. Also, in the U.S. every county inn every state has an office called the Area AGency on Aging, and they provide free help to know what community resources are there, help seniors sign up for Medicare and Medicaid, and they also have an ombudsman office to help with assisted living and nursing home issues. Just google the county name where they live, then Area Ageny on Aging phone number, and it should come up.

uberman · Answer

I think a Chromebook is likely the best answer but why is Windows incredibly hostile? Do you feel that a malware browser or any of the other nefarious actions of Geek Squad are the fault of the OS? Do you feel that your grandma would have an easy time getting RDP to work on Linux? Hell, I can't even get it to work.

billconan · Answer

I feel you. I have the same frustration guiding my parents too.I use teamviewer. I'm thinking maybe creating a special linux distro with built-in remote control and account management for this use case ...