HACKER Q&A
📣 throwaway14454

How do you recover from burnout?


I have been working for several years now, as a software engineer, as well as an engineering manager. Right now, I'm jaded and uninterested in my current job. I have no motivation to work, or make things better. I spoke to a few different companies, but am failing to see myself motivated with the change as well.

I have switched a few teams and roles internally to see if that helps reenergize me.

How do you all deal with this? How do you get motivated again, and light that spark?

I still have several productive years, but am not able to take advantage of those to make life more comfortable for my family.


  👤 dang Accepted Answer ✓
Perhaps some of these threads will help:

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👤 ldjkfkdsjnv
Just stop working so much. Especially if you work from home, just tell yourself you dont care if you get fired, and put in 15 hours a week. You might be surprised that management wont care all that much. I used to have this ego thing where I needed to be the top employee and it was burning me out, so I just dropped that and embraced mediocrity

👤 gustavo456
A job is a job and it’s not there to be perfectly aligned with your passions and interests. There is nothing wrong with not being constantly obsessed with improvement and career path. I found that doing things that the 12yo version of myself would not be proud of for a prolonged amount of time takes a lot of joy away.

Taking some time off for self study has helped me a lot. Once every couple years I dedicate a couple months to play around and let my curiosity take me places. This might be a project, degree or undirected self learning. While this might not fix any day job disappointments, it helps to gain a fresh perspective and regain some of the time that I’d normally give to some organisation that pays the bills.


👤 Overtonwindow
I think it helps to identify precisely what burned you out in the first place, and include if that was a specific person. Once you can identify one thing then that might give an idea of what to remove or resolve to bounce back from burnout. Otherwise, you go back into a meat grinder for more potential burnout in the future. In my case, it was my boss. I had to leave a job and I did, and my burnout evaporated.

👤 errantmind
For me, the cause of burnout was working for someone else instead of being an owner of the output of my labor. It feels totally different.

👤 throwaway123455
Are you me?! Seriously! I'm in the same exact position.