It won't do Modern Standby properly, so it always kinda hibernates, ergo: Press Power button, make a coffee, wiggle mouse and click things once desktop appears so I know it's finally responsive. To shut down I just ignore it like the naughty boy it is until it sulks, tries to sleep, and finally falls into hibernation.
Gaming/VR PC:
Modern Standby works perfectly. Press power button, instantly awake, ready to go. Also leave it to sleep when I'm done.
Work PC:
It's a Surface Pro 7, as such it has a mind of its own. I approach it cautiously so as not to startle it, and treat it gently so it doesn't reboot when I click on stuff too fast.
In case it's not brutally obvious, these are Windows 10 PCs
sudo shutdown now
Shutdown if I'm feeling generous: sudo shutdown -r now
Boot process: *press power button*
*sip coffee*
*start working*
Each day it saves me a few seconds and the start scripts also serve as documentation.
Boot:
Wake on lan via Phone
What in specific are you looking for?
Shutdown: ctrl+alt+shift+q