If you would get to recommend a single book for everyone to read, what would it be?
I'm not usually so insulting--but as a father of two, if my 3 year old and 1.5 year old could only read one book, it would have to be "Oh, the places you'll go" by Dr. Suess.
Sorry to stomp on Das Kapital and its ilk, but if you get only one book, I can't imagine a better first message to convey than the endless possibilities inherent in each of us.
The world is your oyster! Even if you're old and have wasted most of what you were given. Especially today, in some of the most amazing times that have ever existed (even if you didn't draw the long straw). Today is SO much better than most of history.
Although the bit about the plague from a dirty phone might be a little too close for comfort these days (but that just goes to show how fascinatingly “complete” the book is).
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
-Bessel van der Kolk
It's not an easy read for said people, but very worthwhile. Was introduced at a friends place and got a little ways in, waiting to pick up my own copy now.Edit:
Also "The Art of War" is fun. It mostly boils down to common sense, but it's interesting to see application of first principles to ancient warfare.
[0] https://www.amazon.com/Scout-Mindset-People-Things-Clearly-e...
"A mini habit is basically a much smaller version of a new habit you want to form. 100 push-ups daily is minified into one push-up daily. Writing 3,000 words daily becomes writing 50 words daily. Thinking positively all the time becomes thinking two positive thoughts per day. Living an entrepreneurial lifestyle becomes thinking of two ideas per day (among other entrepreneurial things). The foundation of the Mini Habits system is in “stupid small” steps."
I did a summary here : https://www.chestergrant.com/26-highlights-from-mini-habits-...
For someone more ambitious I might recommend "The Anatomy of Melancholy," by Richard Burton (17th c.). At least the preface (around 100 pages) and maybe a smattering of the book proper. It's hard to explain - better to look it up.
For something more recent and immediately relevant, I think "Are Prisons Obsolete?" by Angela Davis was quite eye opening about the history of racism in law enforcement and the production of the modern prison system.
1) “How to win friends and influence people”
2) “Never split the difference”
The first one will teach you how to work with people. The second will teach you how to negotiate salaries, raises, and promotions among other things.
I don’t recommend many technical books because engineers can find all of that on the internet and are much more at risk of being bad at people stuff.
It is a book about turning beauty into ruin. About the stupidity and cruelty of man. And also about the authors love of humanity and finding joy and love in the fate we all share.
Vonnegut stared into the abyss and never lost his idealism.
Read Bhagavad Gita[1], had read the Bible[2] in hotel stays but will read it again, and the Quran[3] is waiting in the book-shelf. No, not religious at all; in fact, very far from it.
Some time back, someone did a nice collection of HackerNews recommended books[4].
1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bhagavad_Gita
2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bible
[0] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/5553.Six_Easy_Pieces
It may be that there is no one book that I think everyone should read. Everyone has different tastes and interests, and what I think is a must read is probably on someone else's list of books never to read.
So probably a recommendation on any field should be made based on calculations both of how essential it is, but also how it's reading may change assumptions about the field if the person has not read it. It seems somewhat arrogant.
And in the end it's annoying to get recommended a book one considers essential to the field, as it implies one does not know what one knows.
All that said - for the field of:
Fantasy - Gormenghast
America - Democracy in America
Programming - Structure and Interpretation of Computer Programs
It made me realize how great books should help improve your empathy towards others, and being more understanding to behaviour you'd normally just vilify.
_Small Gods_ is about religion, belief and humanity's relationship with their gods, and about eagles dropping tortoises onto stones to crack them open.
New Testament — as an original source of most of moral principles and ideas modern european civilization is based upon (also fundamental stories and narratives).
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1WSI8g_9BnNmfUM0ZupN1...
If they're 'Written Up', they're generally pretty good.
For the smb/indie-hacking I think E-myth revisited really changes your whole perspective about running a small business, especially when you read yourself on the pages.
Also there is one book which I don't think everybody should read but was truly life changing for me was Driven to distraction. It helped me get a evaluation and understand that ADHD is a very real thing (real as something which Doctors can spot on a MRI and it's not something you can overcome with strong will and determination).
Bhagavad Gita: As it is.
Do not read the explanation which are biased to god and religion.
But you can definitely read the stanzas. The idea that we are actor whose duty is to act is a powerful concept, especially when you are feeling low.
The book also has some egoistic stuff like "I am god, obey me." But once you filter some of these, you see bigger picture.
A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole
is very funny but also the back story to how it got published is both sad and interesting.
...and if I can pick a second book:
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintainance by Robert M. Pirsig.
...and a third:
Catch-22 by Joseph Heller
Erich Fromm is a great author and in this book he looks at the difference of having (owning stuff) vs. being (enjoying experiences). He argues that too many people are focused on "having", and that our whole society and even language is built around that. For example, you would say "I have a relationship". He argues that it's a weird choice of words, since you don't own the relationship.
For its potential impact on humanity...
> Refuse, Reduce, Reuse, Recycle, Rot (and only in that order) is my method to > reducing my family’s annual trash to a jar since 2008 -- Bea Johnson
It does an "explain like I'm 13" for how the idea of markets and money started, how and why it changed through the centuries and where we are now.
It's so easy to read, that it took me a couple of days to finish it.
Simple language. Simple lessons. Life changing guidance that has stood the test of time.
Yes, I know you've probably read it already, but it's probably time to read it again.
Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
Most of you will know it, but to make sure: I wouldn't want to die without having read
"Gödel Escher Bach - An Eternal Golden Braid" (Douglas R. Hofstadter),
a 1000-page recursive poem about consciousness, bio-chemistry, mathematical versus musical beauty, zen koans, recursion, symmetry, formal rule systems, AI and more. Every second chapter is written as a dialog.
Manufacturing Consent: The Political Economy of the Mass Media (Edward S. Herman and Noam Chomsky)
In our time, media manipulation is at its historic peak, so perhaps everyone should know a bit about the political-economic underpinnings. How issues are framed and chosen, the influence of money, reporting biases.
Dining with Terrorists: Meetings with the World's Most Wanted Militants (Phil Rees)
A former BBC journalist tells about meals with 'interesting' people and the trickiness associated with the definition of 'terrorism'.
I'm also going to throw in some movies for good measure.
Films:
Meaning of Life https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0085959/
Adam's Apples https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0418455/
Harold and Maude https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0067185/
Refuses to accept the narrative of the colonizers, oppressors, slavers, winners of wars, and rewrites it, calling things and events by their real names.
Pulls the veil of lies and delusions. Gives voice to the people who survived and endured.
Exposes the methodologies of propaganda and oppression and offers roadmaps of healing from the normalized violence of poverty, racism, colonialism.
Incredibly well written - concise, unflinching and yet levelheaded.
For an insight into how our logic engine doesn't, itself, function in what we would consider a logical way. Reading this book made it easier for me to empathise with people whose situations I could relate to but their reactions to said situations made me question their sanity.
Be thankful for a high functioning brain. Be understanding that very minor differences have majorly different outcomes.
He's cooked quite a lot of soup on this stone, and he's built a comically aggressive persona, but the original book is still quite relevant.
Being aware of randomness will change how you think of just about everything, not just financial markets. Jobs, relationships, rivalries, morality, competence, and so on.
Product-led growth for deep tech category creation sounds like a new thing, but there's almost a century of quantitative social science on pretty much that. The book is a super easy & enjoyable distillation of it.
~10 years after reading, still inspires a lot of my first-principles thinking for how we approach basic product, marketing, partnering, etc
Quite unknown, I discovered it more than 10 years ago. It is an easily and pleasantly readable book: I discovered my stupid actions, and I still use it to evaluate what I am going to do. It isn’t a survival guide or a “how to” manual, but it offers practical solutions to improve those human qualities that counteract stupidity.
Erich Fromm The Art of Loving
David schnarch Passionate Marriage: Sex, Love & Intimacy in emotionally committed relationships.
And before you get married... Get some new perspective why ...
Wolfgang gädecke, Sexuality, Partnership and Marriage : From a Spiritual Perspective
Every visual/graphic/product/web designer should read The Elements of Typographic Style by Robert Bringhurst.
I’m dyslexic and growing up reading was always a challenge, despite doing well at school and university I was a slow and uncritical reader. My girlfriend (now wife) was teaching The Great Gatsby to a class and practically made me read it. The process of reading that book and discussing it with her completely changed the way I read, it was an enlightening and incredibly enjoyable experience. It was as much about the discussions we had about the book as the book itself.
So my recommendation is find a book that you can read and discuss in depth with someone else. For me it has become a delight for us to both read a book and then talk in depth about it. You gain so much more insight.
There is also a book by the same author called, "My Hidden Chimp" which I believe is a child-friendly version of the The Chimp Paradox. I've not read it myself, but my girlfriend teaches at a primary school where the kids are reading it at the moment. She seems to think highly of it so that might be a good alternative for younger audiences.
It’s not “the one book” but it will help a lot of people immediately.
- Range
- Conversations with God
- Factfulness
- Accelerate: Building and Scaling High-Performing Technology Organizations
ancient era existentialism written in poetic form. Unlike the other suggestions here, it can be accessed for free and takes only ~20 minutes to read
Just an amazing survey of how people have thought and created over the course of human history. For me, it put so many periods into context; I finally know the different between the renaissance and the enlightenment!
It's one of the biggest longitudinal qualitative studies on work life and company succes. It has given me by far the most valuable insight into what really matters in building happy and effective workspace.
[1] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11721498-the-progress-pr...
The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran
This little book stumbles into my life every 5 or 10 years and always reinvigorates my appreciation for the beauty of life. It is like being swept away by a beautiful piece of music - it can touch your soul. Then again, like music, it is not for everyone nor even repeatable for yourself depending on what mood you are in.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074CF4JFZ?searchxofy=true&binding...
Just ignore the last volume which is a joke from another author.
I'm unable to enjoy any other Sci-Fi fiction after this one.
I found about it thanks to this HN comment: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29801661. I thought the video was amazing so I searched for the author and found the book written by the same person. It didn't disappoint.
His explanation of Correlation vs Causation while likely obvious to some was eye-opening for me as well as his idea of looking at products from what Job they fulfill standpoint
This is one of the best books I've ever read in my life. I'm a big fan of Malcolm X. The change in his life was huge and with every big change that happens to his ideas he doesn't get devastated or shocked but he pursues it with a better understanding. The culture and will power of this man is something respectable.
The man who mistook his wife for a hat - Oliver Sacks
The origin of consciousness in the breakdown of the bicameral mind - Julian Jaynes
The book is almost childish in some sections, but the lessons are great. I'm still using many of the lessons daily such as taking a break when stuck on a hard problem, doing the most difficult task of the day first or that it is okay if you don't understand something immediately.
Mister God, this is Anna - by Fynn
Finite and Infinite Games - by James P. Carse
How to win friends and influence people, Dale Carnegie.
It was the original "self help" book, and the principles there are so simple yet powerful that will resonate a self evident. However these are mostly ignored, and the same as with common sense which happens to be the less common of the senses.
Despite the horribly long title it turned out to be a great book on what we actually look for in relationships, and how to deal with the difficulties every relationship causes. A very non-boring psychology book.
But if I could, I would supplement it with these two, because they were so prescient in describing what happened to us in the past 30 years:
Erich Fromm - "Escape From Freedom"
Aldous Huxley - "Brave New World"
non-fictional: everything Robert Greene
fictional: everything Dostoevsky
Wonderfully written book on how computers work.
It's even a good read for the curious non-technical reader. However, some chapters might be a bit hard for them. The first road block seem to be the chapter on logic gates, but with some help it's not that bad.
If you set aside your preconceived notions and read it as a series of hypotheses that must be confirmed within your own direct experience, it will transform your experience of reality and set you on the (pathless) path to enlightenment.
Perfectly explain the progressive religion we find ourselves under.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Journey_to_the_West
..and not just for the fun Monkey bits.
Talks about minimum wages, inflation, tariffs, devaluing currency and so on in a very small book, based on (rather game-theoretic) analysis.
Reads like it was written today.
Great introduction to current social issues and how modern economics can help us make sense of them.
IMHO, it will take another century before the world works through the full consequences of what she's written.
The section about "stewardship delegation" alone makes this book priceless.
It is a light read so I recommend it widely. It is about the general topic of making good decisions and having correct opinions which is helpful to all of us.
Caveat: I expect many HN readers to be familiar with LessWrong, SlateStarCodex, and the rationality community in general. In this case, there is probably nothing new in the book for you.
The dictionary! It’s THE book you need to write many other books!
Secondly, come on. You can listen to around 200 audiobooks per year while commuting, doing chores, excercising etc.
Lastly: if you only ever want to read a couple of few books, these should be the dictionary and thesaurus.
If a single book, it would be this one.
A book that encourages your imagination
If you want to go deeper in understanding the West, it's recommendable to also get a rough idea of it's philosophers, especially the Greeks and the important ones up to Kant, including Descartes' idea of the social contract.
If you still want to know more, you should read about the most important economic ideas, e.g. Smith, Keynes, Marx.
Its an incredible non-fiction book
To have a total opposite mindset of the socialist we have here was mind blowing for me.
Atlas Shrugged by the same author
It’s striking how fundamental the principles from those books are. An assembly code of the society:-)
The 4th book of Frank Hurbert's dune saga. Or I personally think it's THE ending of the actual dune story line. Not only it completes the cycle started in Book 1 titled "dune". The 2 later books are really spin-off that tells a much smaller story.
God emperor shows Hurbert's astounding depth and width in understanding humans as the building blocks of the civilization. And gave an unprecedented interpretation of humanity (and ruthlessness).
The words are poetic with a sense of intonation built-in that renders a supernatural feeling, and had made me rethink how humans should live together.
It's also a book that ends at the beginning, and used one sentence to reveal the climax of the whole dune story line. One had to appreciate Herbert's immense imagination and skills to bring those into words, that depicts minuate details that are enthralling yet always points to the ultimate idea. A literary genius and magnificent architect in human language at the grandest scale.
That's the one book Ill bring along if I am on an one-way trip to Mars!