Google Domains is out because I don't use Google products/have a Google account
Security is a high priority because my emails go through one of my custom domains
Those are about all of my requirements; it's also just hard to know which registrars are trustworthy
Would be very grateful for recommendations
You can use Cloudflare now too as a registrar but I decided to keep my registrar and DNS separate
The founder, Mark Jeftovic, wrote the book[0] on domains. pg commented[1] back in 2008 that, "I use EasyDNS. They're expensive, but reliable and never do anything evil."
I've mentioned them a few times over the years; here's my comment[2] from 2015: "Mad props to Mark Jeftovic and easyDNS. Found his service by doing a WHOIS on ycombinator.com when looking for a new registrar a while back. easyDNS has the cleanest and most logical interface for managing domain names and DNS records that I've found. And Mark's blog posts (like the one above) are great. Here's another favorite: http://blog.easydns.org/2014/01/29/welcome-to-easydns-press-... ".
[0] Managing Mission-Critical Domains and DNS: Demystifying nameservers, DNS, and domain names https://www.amazon.com/dp/1789135079/
Just works. Dead simple. No frills. Feels like something from the early 90s. I've been using it for DNS for the last 10 years with multiple domains and no issues.
Otherwise my default is Gandi.
Adding another perspective: the important aspects of domain registrars changes depending on what you plan to use them for.
You noted a specific kind of dns record, and also security.
For dns records, you aren’t locked to a domain registrar. DNS records are offered by which nameserver you choose. (I apologize for being pedantic, but once you realize you can register their domain one place, and then serve dns records from another place…things get much easier.)
Another thing to consider are domain disputes and privacy. You didn’t mention either, but they (can be) serious considerations.
I’ve really appreciated www.tld-list.com to help identify which registrars offer the best value- including whois privacy.
Regarding domain disputes, you might want to look into different hosts to see how they are handled. There isn’t (or does not seem to be) a specific standard regarding what is required to dispute a domain. We’ve all heard horror stories of a domain suddenly switching ownership due to a mysterious fax to the registrar.
I appreciate www.namesilo.com because they don’t fluctuate on their .com prices, have reasonable renewal fees, and offer Whois privacy for free (when possible). I have 20+ domains with them, so that should give you some perspective of how little I know. ;) My affiliate link: https://www.namesilo.com/register.php?rid=e1d6e83hi
One last comment: if your current issue is a dns record, then I’d recommend changing your nameserver to cloudflare or some other dns provider. This way, you don’t have to transfer your domain to a new registrar (which can be a hassle). Instead, you just change the nameserver record in your domain’s hover.com settings.
Hope you figure it out!
[0] https://medium.com/@N/how-i-lost-my-50-000-twitter-username-...
Interface is from the 90s, no BS, full access to DNS config and transfers, no upsells, just hardcore neckbeard admin stuff.
I like.
They are not the cheapest registrar, though.
1. A really good customer support.
2. You can purchase all products & services with crypto.
The only thing I dislike is not getting ample warning when domains are close to renewal. They just send a new bill without warning me beforehand.