But it also taught me that hard work isn't everything, and moreover, that you can actually push yourself too hard. It got to a point where I ran so much and so hard that I didn't even feel good afterwards. My pace and overall fitness actually started to decrease.
Some of my fastest runs were also some of the runs I felt best doing.
"Life's a marathon not a sprint". If you try to sprint the full marathon, you'll burn out and finish slower. You need to pace yourself. Work hard, but also smart, and make sure your routine is bearable and sustainable long-term.
Some resources for further reading:
* The Energy of Life: The Science of What Makes Our Minds and Bodies Work by Guy Brown.
* Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain by John Ratey.
* Body by Science: A Research Based Program to Get the Results You Want in 12 Minutes a Week by John Little and Doug Mcguff.
Now when I get up in the morning and make coffee it is effortless and I don't even think about it. Fill a pot with water and pour it into the machine. And I feel upbeat while doing it.
This is something that would be very easy to not self-observe. I overlooked the before/after difference myself. Just one day I noticed "hey making coffee is easier than it used to be". Being physically fit is good for many little things in life. Things you will not even notice and take for granted.
Surfing has kept me fit and kept me WANTING to stay fit throughout my whole life - I’ve swum and done weights when living in cities to stay on point for getting in the water ‘when it’s necessary’ (Big Wednesday quote).
I’ve also made a lot of friends and travelled a lot with it. Don’t know what I’d be like without it ….
You won't push yourself as hard when you're by yourself than if you're in a group / personal training setting.
If you do a really hard workout in the morning and you're in tune with your body you can instantly tell if there's something you didn't do right the day before (eating / drinking etc).
If you notice the previous insight it can shape your behaviour the day before your workout (e.g. "I won't drink tonight because I've got a hard workout tomorrow morning"). Exercise can alter your behaviour in life.
Not everyone puts in the same energy into a workout / exercise. To be better than the rest you should focus on technique and always give it your best - even for simple exercises.
You'll advance faster if you work hard on the basics, but to become really good in say a sport one of the main things is to show up consistently and train frequently.
Training doesn't just make your muscles stronger, it strengthens your bones and (perhaps counter-intuitively?) makes you less prone to injury.
The hardest thing is showing up. Once you show up you'll usually do more than you thought you would.
Incidentally, highly recommend -
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
> https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18693771-the-body-keeps-...
To reach your goals, you need to make incremental adjustments and gains. One step at a time. Take notes and look back at what you have accomplished. Cherish each pound. Take breaks to rest the body. And don’t forget to celebrate each step.
.5 lbs extra on a lift is worthy of celebration!
Still don't like talking to people though.
People say hi and chat, but I just don't enjoy talking to strangers, I guess. :) Different if I live abroad, but, mostly in the USA - They ask about my bike, and I always feel like they are surveilling me more than wanting to connect.
I feel physical progress rather than decay, so I feel confident of a healthy future for myself. Group exercise has also helped me socialize.
A regular schedule has helped me feel satisfied of the week, and enjoy more my rest days.
Do it. Develop the habit, 1000% more important than measured results. Push yourself to do it even if you're not feeling like it, and even if you're not enjoying it mid-exercise.
The net result is you're overall better. Not just physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. THIS is the biggest benefit for me.
Aka benching twice a week and adding a 2.5 pound plates whenever possible to get to 315 pounds.
Avoid dangerous things that stress poor parts of the body, such as the knee's ligaments.
Some things never heal back once injured, such as most of the meniscus-- only a small part of it has blood flow. Probably similar with other cartilage body parts.