I remember back in the day there was Last.fm and the concept of scrobbling as an interesting way of seeing what your friends are listening to. Playing your song on Myspace was also a great way to show your friends what music you're interested in and finding new bands. Why is this so difficult in 2021?
Context and agency are important, music becomes part of you, so I put my trust people I know more than Internet lists and algorithms.
I also recommend that even if you have no musical training, try making music for yourself, however you can. Be experimental.