I'm a casual smartphone user. I don't want to put months into jailbreaking, tweaking, monitoring connections etc. I know though that both iOS and Android call home to transmit a bunch of private data. And now Apple is going to scan our data as well, ffs!
Basically I'm looking for a setup that would give me the best privacy with a quality phone (something similar to a modern iphone) and ease of use. Of course that's contradictory, but what would be the best compromise in your view? What is your own setup? I'm open to any suggestions and am even considering extreme solutions like getting rid of the smartphone altogether.
Then turn off everything you can in options on that phone, if you can root it, apk remove/freeze apps.
I de-googled, de-amazon'ed my phone, removed all accounts except google, and no longer use apps, i use a browser. (Except spotify/yt, because I listen to podcasts more than anything else.)
2FA on everything.
You'll likely need to deprogram your concept of "quality" to prioritize security and privacy over convenience, then give anything you try an honest chance. Remember, any frustration you might feel early on is just withdrawal from all of the non-volitional and anti-consumer patterns leaving your life.
Be sure to donate to FOSS projects as well.
It's extremely usable, with only minor hiccups if you're trying to use any apps that require Google Play Services. GrapheneOS does allow you to install play services sandboxed without any special system access (just like any other app). I've replaced a couple of apps that required those to FOSS alternatives without much hassle at all.
Install via WebUSB[0] was very simple and went without a hitch, and at the end of the day is basically just a normal Android experience, just much more secure and private by default.
For example, are you worried about location information? Who do you want to avoid knowing if? What granularity is acceptable?
Your smart phone reveals a masssssive amount of information, from checking access points and nfc devices to cookies on the web to exif, to cell towers. If you really want total privacy you shouldn’t carry one at all.