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📣 throwaway47356

How to go about getting help for mental health?


Throwaway account for obvious reasons.

I've come to realize that my mental health has declined to an unacceptable state. I know it has negatively impacted my work to the point that my employer has noticed. I intend to seek help but am uncertain how to go about doing so and how much I should share with my employer.

I suspect that I should seek out help independently of the company but I'm wondering if there is a better way than just picking someone I find online?

I have an upcoming meeting with my manager where I suspect my declining performance will be brought up again. I doubt I will have been seeing someone by that time and am unsure of how to go about talking about it (if at all).

I have been looking at getting a new job as I know this one is contributing to my issues, so I don't think I could go about asking for time off for health issues and then leave shortly after.

I'm the sole source of income so taking any time off isn't an option.

For further detail I would say that it is severe anxiety that worsened as a result of thinking it was something else entirely.


  👤 Hangry Accepted Answer ✓
I don't know your situation but is it possible to quit and then apply for unemployment under medical reasons, friend?

"When Can You Quit Your Job and Still Receive Unemployment Benefits?" "Medical reasons. In many states, an employee who quits because of an illness, injury, or disability may remain eligible for unemployment. Some states require that the medical condition be linked to the job. In other words, the employee is covered only if the work caused or aggravated the medical condition."


👤 throwaway47356
An update:

Had the meeting. I didn't say anything about mental health which was probably good as I got the PiP. I figure I have at least 2 weeks as long as I don't do something egregious. Of course what appeared to prompt this was taking a day off at the last minute as I wasn't in a condition to work.

Made an appointment Monday with a doctor who I think can diagnose/treat. I figure it's a decent first step at least.

I live in the upper midwest of the US.

We have a bit more saved up than I thought so a 2 week gap shouldn't be too much of an issue, however I'd be worried about a job search taking longer.


👤 Geekette
It would be helpful to include your location so as to get replies that ideally take into account your state/province/country's labour laws/HR regulations per your rights and how much, when and best way to disclose to your employer.