1. The low memory footprint.
2. Hot reloading (in dev mode) is awesome.
3. Plenty of modules. (https://code.quarkus.io)
4. Compile-time wiring, (unlike Spring's runtime wiring).
5. Fast startup (Kubectl deploy restart comes out in less than a sec).
6. Qute template engine is really nice, (Yes we use template engines to render UI).
7. 'Sponsored by Redhat' is icing on the cake. (Make it easy to convince senior mgmnt)
8. Dev-ui,
9. Shallow stack traces (Compared to Spring's)
10. Sane standard api's
etc. all deserve a praise and makes development a walk in the park. Our devs couldn't be happier with choosing Quarkus as go-to framework for all our new projects.
Payara[2]: I tried Glassfish, JBoss (Wildfly), and possibly others back in the day, and I found Glassfish the easiest to work with. It was still kinda buggy, but was good enough. When I saw that someone forked it, I gave it a go, and liked it better.
Postgres: Because it's Postgres. In the past few years, I've been loving its full text search and trigram features.
As for actual frameworks, servlets and JSPs run like bats out of hell. I've used Struts and Spring at some jobs over the years, but I don't have any particular attachment, and wasn't at those places for any appreciable amount of time.
[0]: https://github.com/theandrewbailey/toilet
2) Spring IoC / spring-context / spring-beans (https://docs.spring.io/spring-framework/docs/current/referen...): Spring is still pretty awesome for dependency injection. You only have to import what you need. Also a fan of Spring Boot but you need to be pretty opinionated about disabling auto-configuration or just pulling in what you need. Injecting whatever Spring library you need becomes pretty straightforward after that.
If you're going to adopt any of these technologies though, your team needs to be able to look under the covers when things go wrong or you need to do something sufficiently custom.
https://spring.io/projects/spring-boot
Spring Batch: for async/batch work
For higher loads I pick Vert.x.
Other than that, it's almost always 3 J's: Jetty, Jersey, Jackson.