This is what happened to me at the current company a couple of years ago. I didn't raise it with the management at the time and assumed that I just needed to get a bit better for it. I've been working towards the promotion to my job offer level for the past year, but so far it's always been "come back next cycle". My reviews have always been good, but it seemed like I needed to get just a bit better or for just a tad longer. I've been mentoring people of my level, working on various internal company side projects on my own time for most of these years to build reputation and prove myself, but it doesn't seem to pay off as much and I feel that I'm starting to lose motivation.
Is there anything you would suggest to stay positive? Do you know anyone else who went through a similar experience and came off on top?
Also, this happens with alarming frequency across firms with nebulous managerial titles. Different firms use titles like VP, Manager, Director, Supervisor, Principal, etc. interchangeably or defined entirely differently from their industry counterparts. One company's VP may be another company's Senior Associate; one company's Supervisor may be another company's Director, etc., so ultimately it's really just the level of responsibility and how you're able to sell it to future firms or partners that matters most.
This was 6 years ago. I now make $180k - with bonuses often pushing me close to $220k.
Go apply for other jobs and see what others are willing to pay you
Maybe they love that you’ll work for free if they keep dangling the carrot in front of you.
If it’s going to take you years to get what you’re qualified for, then doesn’t it make sense to find a new job at the appropriate level? It should only take a few months.
I'd cut my losses and move onto a different company, especially after your comment:
> although I could probably get 50% more without much effort at other places.
Unless you're perfectly happy with your job and your pay (it doesn't sound like you are) I'd start looking. If you can find more intellectually stimulating work elsewhere at better pay, that seems like a win-win.
Management response: I was asked to resign (in the most clear terms possible).
Forget your title. Are you happy with your salary and job? If no, move on. It's not like your next company can verify your current level or they even really care (outside of salary requirements). I ended up leaving the job because my great manager left and my new manager was horrible. It had nothing to do with level, and everything to do with job satisfaction.
I lasted just 3 weeks in that job.
Deep down I would have a trust issue with the company. Although often titles are handed out as fake promotions and have little meaning. Senior developer vs junior analyst vs architect. They all sound different but could be the same job as there are little / no laws regulating titles.
Do you enjoy your job? Do you like your pay? Depending, I would start shopping your resume.
Titles are not worth much anyway; one more reason to insist on your title being what agreed. The title is something you can spend (on your CV, in your relationships with other colleagues).
Also, look around and see if you can get a better role somewhere else. No reason not to switch seeing how they're treating you.
if it's 2 to 3 years, then you're fine -- keep working.
if you're already past the point at which you should have been promoted, then maybe something is up.
i would guess at least half of these cases are "don't worry about the meek guy/girl".
it's not necessarily intentional evil by the managers/company, it's just "the squeaky wheel gets the grease".
so the non-squeaky wheel does _not_ get the grease.
you're the non-squeaky/quiet wheel.
this would seem to comport with those social studies type reports that come out every few months (disclaimer: who knows what percentage of any social studies actually have merit) that say, basically, the worst humans get promoted the most and are the most successful.
i'm sympathetic to that point of view. yes, there are exceptions, obviously, but.
self-promotion, being an asshole, being loud, assertive, etc. -- they matter. if we believe the studies, they matter a lot.
so, you could make noise. and maybe you'd get fired. or forced out. or maybe you'll get promoted next time around.
i'm sure there are books out there on being more assertive. i need to read them myself. sounds like maybe you could use to do the same, tho you got dropped into a tough situation, so it's understandable.
you could try to transfer teams.
you could try to change companies.
i've been interviewing a lot and been getting a lot of grief for 'job hopping'. and my resume could reasonably be described as at least 'bouncy' if not 'hoppy', but the point is that 'stability' (i.e. staying at the same job for a few years no matter how shit) still matters to potential employers.
to stay positive, i would suggest a plan of action -- to take action, if and when you decide things need to change. this will allow you to dwell in a hopeful present.
without that plan, you might wake up one day and find out your life seems over. maybe you're 'just' burned out. maybe you're depressed. and that stuff is real. you think burnout will just take a couple weeks of vacation to cure? you're from a hard-working 'x' background that doesn't believe in things like burnout?
all the more reason to put together that plan. we're all products of our current environments.
think of all the toxic american males who are blowing their brains out every day, before or after they murder a bunch of other people.
that's a bit extreme, but you get the point - don't let yourself fall into burnout/depression. it can happen seemingly overnight. and by the time you post something like this to HN, you might be more than well on your way.
the plan can be simple.
i'm going to:
- read two books on being more assertive (including and especially at work)
- talk to a real career coach, who i will spend real money on, to give me actual-expert advice on how to deal with the specifics of my situation.
- set a deadline for when the promotion needs to happen, and if it does not, you'll start your job hunt in earnest, tho you should start 'getting out there' right away - this will also help preserve your sanity. online meetups/etc. mailing lists. this website. indie hackers. etc.
i tried to move laterally-ish within one company i was at, couldn't make it happen, so split. my mgr was actually trying to help me shift, but it still didn't happen. so i left -- mgr was cool with it/supportive. and that's part of why i'm getting grief today for job hopping. :-D
i think the main caveat/warning here is -- you have to make sure they/the company/manager knows that you want/expect/need to be promoted.
maybe they'll disagree, or just refuse it, etc., but you don't want to end up leaving and then find out that there was a legitimate miscommunication. that would just be weird and stupid and counterproductive for everyone.