These networks, in my experience, are useful for "discovery and introduction" (leads, mates/partners, etc), i.e for new relations, not really leveraging existing ones or taking action. I transition as soon as possible to physical/real life.
I have none of these applications installed on my phone, neither do I receive notifications. I use a browser to get in, check something, get out.
I'm focused on doing things and maintaining existing relationships. My life right now does not depend on a social media metric going up, so I don't bother. If it did, I probably would.