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Do you have a coach? What are your recommendations getting one?


Do you have a coach? What are your recommendations getting one?


  👤 codingdave Accepted Answer ✓
I did for a short while, and am thinking about it again in the new year. I find it quite valuable when you are seeking change in your career, or when you are in a leadership role. It does not seem as helpful if you are an individual contributor primarily focused on tech skills.

My recommendation is to ask them what they specialize in and how their background helps them deliver value in those areas. Coaching has no specific credentials or training, while at the same time there are a plethora of non-required training courses and certifications that claim to be the "right" way to become a coach. So you have everything from someone with no experience who just slapped up a website declaring themselves a coach, to people who have sincerely put years of effort into learning and practicing. They all have different approaches, backgrounds, and skills.

You'll get the most out of it if you can identify what goals you want to achieve by working with a coach, and then consulting with them to see whether or not they are the right person to help you with those goals.


👤 lazyant
Unfortunately, once you are out of being a student or perhaps starting out your professional career, having a coach or mentor is frawn upon or at least not common https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2011/10/03/personal-best

👤 p0d
Not sure if you mean for fitness or life coaching?

If you process thoughts by talking a life coach may help. They will have a series of questions they will work through with you. I have been through the process. My main conclusion is that it's hard to respect a coach who doesn't know about your field of work.

I have a good friend I touch base with sometimes which I find more rewarding. It started as a bit of a joke, "maybe you could coach me for free?" We talk every couple of months for an hour and I find it very valuable. In particular, talking through issues with someone who's opinion you respect.


👤 giantg2
I don't have a coach. I guess I don't really see good cost-benefit model for using one.

I do have some trusted coworkers that I can bounce some thoughts off of when necessary.


👤 dokem
That is what I miss about high school athletics. Having a coach. It really is a unique and valuable relationship that unfortunately doesn’t really seem to be accessible to most after high school. Not to mention the comradely of teammates.