Anyone here retire early, how do you like it

I have one kid and a wife.

Right now, we're at ~$1.1M net worth right now, most of it liquid.

Not too long ago, I remember taking out a $10,000 loan and feeling overwhelmed by this number. I had no idea how I'd pay off such a huge amount.

At that point, I thought $30,000/yr was enough to live on.

Right now we're building a house, that we'll have paid off in ~4 years, worth $700K.

Not too long ago, $450/month for an apartment felt like an unneeded extravagance.

All of this to say... this number is a moving goalpost. At $1M, your mindset may have changed. Your life situation may have changed. Your priorities may change.

In fact, most likely they will.

Right now I'm struggling to define this elusive number for myself. I don't know if $3M will be enough, nor $5M.

Instead, I'm turning inward to figure out what is joy in the present moment?

If I can achieve that, nothing else will matter, since joy will be my reality every day.

I think TechLead gave the best insight into this[0].

Perhaps I'm out of line here but it's worth asking yourself if you're thinking about this because the prospect of taking on responsibility seems too daunting for you. Perhaps the career you're persuing doesn't give you the sense of purpose you might want. Maybe you need to do some soul searching.

Don't dedicate the next ten years of your life to a meme. Instead why not spend that time persuing something meaningful that you love doing. There's no point in spending ten years doing something you hate just to end up doing nothing. If you want to just dick around, take a vacation. If you can't do that, then persue a job where you can.

I know I get extremely bored after about two weeks of vacationing. I can't imagine spending the rest of my life doing that.

[0] https://www.youtube.com/embed/G6eVVrTjNcY

I'm going to mirror a sentiment that somebody else mentioned earlier in this discussion that you should modify your definition of "retired" to mean "I don't need to work for a few years", and go see if not working is in fact something you want to do.

I started along that path in my late 20s, gradually ramping up the length of time between contract gigs as I determined that yes, in fact, I do like not working for long periods of time while travelling through Southeast Asia and Central America. For me, the sweet spot was about 9 months off at a time before, surprisingly, I'd feel like working again for a while.

So I modified my definition of Retired to mean "retired enough for me", and kept doing short contracts to save up for the next trip whenever the mood to work struck. Eventually, I built a couple SaaS products that have ramped up to the point where I don't need to work at all anymore. So I hit a point that people would more closely equate to "actually retired" when I was in my early 40s.

These days, I still do a bit of part time contract work here and there, more as a hobby than an income stream. And I keep the product stuff ticking away at as close to zero hours of maintenance/support as possible. But any day (or week or month) I choose can be off, so that's close enough to retirement for me.

Focus on building investments that generate passive income. $1M in the bank account can be burned quickly.

$1M of real estate investments generating $5-10k USD per month, can go a long way.

I don’t actually see a problem with this if you can achieve it. Discipline might be the tricky part.

If only I had that sort of option. My wife won't even consider moving to a different county.

Aren't you afraid of the outside world interfering in your plan?

tony hsieh tried to retire early. didn't work out so well.

one strategy for how to deal with problems is to try to fix them.

another strategy is to run away from them.