HACKER Q&A
📣 tuyguntn

People with depression, have your depression increased lately (Covid)?


Since I started working at home I feel like my depression level is coming back to higher points, I am worried if I am doing something wrong or quarantine is affecting everyone in similar ways?


  👤 burkean Accepted Answer ✓
In the first few weeks of working from home, my depression definitely got significantly worse. I'm pretty sure that, perversely, I enjoy my job because of the high levels of stress and anxiety (teaching) that normally distract from deeper-seated unhappiness. By removing all the distracting stimulus from my day-to-day, my mental health fell off a cliff fast.

In recent weeks I've mellowed out into a new normal. Have you heard about the idea of the hedonic treadmill? It's the idea that being happy is a temporary response to a positive change in your life and eventually your emotional state returns to normal, even if your life continues being great. I'm beginning to think it works the other way too: I've returned to my not-so-great emotional baseline, even though my quality of life is objectively worse.

I'm sure others will chime in here with what strategies have worked well for them but I thought I would add this observation because it surprised me and is perhaps counter intuitive. All the best getting through this.


👤 gitgud
Yes working from home is wearing me down too. Reasons:

- Video conferencing is boring and detached

- Constant bad news being advertised in all forms of media

- The terms "social distancing" and "self isolation" are depressing

- Weather is miserable

What helps me is; good food, exercise, cuddling pets and family.


👤 662587649495439
Yes. I am feeling lonely and depression is causing me more daily distress than pre-COVID19. I moved to a new city three years ago but have struggled to make any meaningful friendships. Without the small talk and board game nights from my workplace, loneliness consumes a lot of my mental space in these days.

Edit: In fact, this is my first HN comment. As a long-time lurker I thought maybe participating might alleviate some of these negative feelings.


👤 s1t5
First few weeks were an improvement - no commute, lucky enough to still have a job, no pressure to meet people, plenty of time to chill out, read, exercise etc. Then it starts to wear off - the days get way too repetitive, boredom increases, motivation to do anything at all disappears and you realise that being forced into minor social interactions is pretty good for you.

👤 medialucky20
Yes it affected first few weeks. I was struggling to get a proper schedule. Also there was no proper desk setup. Infact I took 3days off to feel better and spend some me time.

Now I am performing better and feeling better too. I have proper schedule of day. I use my commute time as metime to meditate or read something uplift my mood. Thanks to good weather too


👤 brainfog
I'm in the same boat. I was already fraying at the edges before this all started, but this past month has been brutal.

👤 moxd
It was until I realized I actually enjoy my current life a lot better:

- no commute, I haven't used an alarm clock in months

- I don't have to deal with stupid office chit chat

- I spend a lot of time with my wife

- I do yoga

- I've been studying a lot more


👤 Red_Leaves_Flyy
Mines gotten a fair bit better. I'm spending a lot more quality time with my s/o, and work has gotten a lot less stressful. I'd love it if my city stayed this quiet.