In some cases (say, Google Docs), I would like to make sure everything is preserved and passed on to my children; in others I don't really care that much. In addition, I would like to make sure all of the automated payments cease as soon as possible, and so on.
Has anyone else thought about something like that? Are there any services that cater to these needs?
In your case, I think the same thing would work for giving about what to do with certain accounts.
So as I'm writing this I realized that all my HN comments will be here as long as HN is around running the way it has been running should my child want to delve into it and that could happen while I am still alive. It makes me glad that I default to public over private. Less of a burden on me is less of a burden on my child as well and what they will find in my online legacy is mostly my better self. Good luck.
It was a paper folder with printed instructions about what to do with pension, funds, etc.