What's your next goal in self-improvement?

I'd like to commit to a really modest lifestyle, maybe until 2025, and see where I end up.

No high ambitions. No lust for good food or sugary water. No compulsion to impress anyone, including clients and bosses. No raging at things I don't take action on.

I'd like to go to bed, calm, not worried about the books I need to be reading or the projects I should be finishing. I'd like to actually be bored, and accept the boredom as a fine thing.

Throwaway cause this is personally embarrassing - have some semblance of a relationship with the opposite sex. I'm in my late twenties and have never been in any sort of romantic relationship. Never had sex or even kissed. I don't know what it is but I keep preventing myself from going through with any of these. I have just about everything else going half decently: I have a well paying job, some friends, hobbies, my own apartment, etc. but something in my psyche doesn't let me venture down that path. I have had a few dates here and there which obviously led to nothing, which leads me to wonder what is wrong with me. Actually committing myself to dating and romantic relationships would be a huge step in my life.

I'd like to improve my ability to focus and to gear my life towards optimal performance. This should take care of multiple challenges that I facing today.

I'd like to stop being my own worst critic, self-sabotage, and build something that improves someone else's life (and make money doing it)

make more money/learn to code

Most importantly I want to put on weight. At least 30-40lbs. Unfortunately I'm still trying to work out how to optimize my diet because I can only eat so mo much until I become bloated and moderately nauseous